my ex boyfriend n i went out 4 9 months! we were REALLY tight, like best friends, and we did everything together. but then we broke up, but stayed friends, and it's been like 7 months now, and he's got a new gf, that cheats on him ALL the time and treats him like crap!! but he says he loves her but also loves me. i would give the world to get him back! hes the only guy i ever truely loved, and im the only girl he says hes ever truely loved. he lost his V with me also. how do i get him back? can u guys plz help!! his gf is so mean 2 him, she'll go n sit on other guys' laps RIGHT in front of him!! and she's nutten but trouble 4 him. no1 in his family rly even likes her also, either do his friends! but every thing i say 2 him, he goes off and tells her no matter what it is! he got in a lil cram the other day n had 2 go away and b4 he left, he called her 2 tell her he loves her and such, well she didnt even call him the next day 2 c if he was aight, she didnt even no he was gone!!
2006-07-22 07:05:39 · 4 answers · asked by hotpeper13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well.....maybe this other girl is extremely articulate and writes in the language we call English.
Might want to work on that.
2006-07-22 07:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart...as hard as this is..you need to walk away. Let him do what is best for him. He doesn't have very much respect for you if he tells her everything in your conversations. There's nothing you can do to change this situation. You will find someone one day who will treat you like you deserve to be treated. It will happen when your not expecting it.
I know it hurts and I know you love him but think about yourself and how you feel.
Good luck.
2006-07-22 14:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by Barb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has him whipped. some guys like to be controlled, i suppose. anyway, i think he has to find on his own that you are the right one for him. guys do like something they can't get, and this girl is probably stringing him along. he gave her all the power. anyway, hopefully everything works out for the best.
2006-07-22 14:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by ftz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and move on....let him learn his own lesson...as long as your there for a crutch..he'll keep using you for affection...go find your own boyfriend and then maybe he'll relize the mistake he made with you...
2006-07-22 14:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋