why does a guy's mom hate the girlfriend?

Question

my ex-boyfriends mom hated me while i was dating her son. she still hates me. what should i do?

Answer 1

Mothers always feel that they are taking their son away from them. nothing just quit trying to get people to like you it is not that important

Answer 2

You sound like an fantastically outstanding guy. only verify with her mom. next time you go over and the mummy is going to the kitchen or some thing, go after her and only convey regret for what she had considered on the phone some months decrease back and that you've been fairly dissatisfied. i'm confident she will say that she didnt have a good time with you declaring such issues as that to her daughter, yet she will also have a good time with the very incontrovertible certainty that you acted like a real guy and requested for forgiveness. And for the destiny, you should inform your female that she would not ought to pass in the back of your decrease back and do stuff because she thinks that you're going to inform her mom. this way, next time even as she needs to do some thing, she will inform you and also you'll under no circumstances ought to txt her some thing like that lower back.

Answer 3

There is really nothing you can do. The love of a mother and child is unstoppable. The mom will always disapprove of any female, because she believes that no other woman but her is good for her son. But you can try to spending more time with her so she can accept, by spending quality time, and ask plenty of question showing that your interested. But don't ask to many because it gets annoying. Also only do this if your looking for a long term relationship

Answer 4

It's simple dear,
because moms are never secure when a girlfriend/wife love or even interest is present.

What do you feel if somebody just pupping up in your life and weather you like it or not he/she will share you the room, or food or books..etc.

Smart girls, should focus on Moms and show them interest and show the mom that she encourages her special guy to love and care for his mom for , she must prove that she can coke.. talk properly and has a neat life.. , only by reaching this level.. you'll have a new ally .. called.."His mom" !

Good luck

Answer 5

Hmm. I have two sons and I have never hated their girlfriends. I would say that if you aren't treating them right that would be a major issue. Other than that I don't know why she would dislike you. LOL Maybe she thinks that you are taking time away from her and she should just grow up!

Answer 6

Either you're a ho or the mom is. It's natural for a mother to feel jealousy that a foriegn woman is taking over as the main female in her baby's life.

Answer 7

Forget her as you aren't even with him anymore. I don't think its a case of a mum hates the girlfriend i think she is just protective over the bond she has with her son as you would effectively replace her as the women in his life.

Answer 8

Yikes! Yeah I think that by boyfriends mom is jealous of me! I thinks that I am competing with her for his attention and I am not! I am just there, I am the grilfriend. But in her mind he is still 5 years old and she sure treats him like that. She is over protective and way overinvolved in his life and it kind of makes me mad, but he will not stand up to her or explain this to her. He won't defend me to her and just puts up with it, saying it is normal. And he is an only child so it makes it 10 times worse. I'm talking major mama's boy! I mean she thinks about suff that no mother should think about and shes constantly asking personal questions about our sex life and stuff like that, like shes entitled to it or something.........shes like i want times, dates, and all the great details............I really don't know what to tell you, its hard and I'm dealing with it.....I stay quiet a lot, i told him i would not make him choose between his family and me like my mom did, she made me choose him or her, and i chose him and she kicked me out, but i loved him so i put up with stuff i would not normally stand......we said that cheating was the only thing that would drive us apart, but I think that his parents could be the other reason, more his mom tho...........Good Luck Honey! :)

Answer 9

Being a guy's mom, its really nothing personal. You are a threat to her...taking her place in her babys life. Why she still hates you is beyond me, unless, you broke her babys heart, then, she will haunt you for the rest of your life.

Answer 10

if he's your ex do nothing but for most mom girls aren't good enough for there son's but not all mom are like that. I love my son's girls.