me & my bf firend have been goning out for one year but i don't feel as he respects me he doesn't say's anything nice to me anymore and he no longer comes to see me but he alway's calls me to come to his place if i don't wont to do something he will get angry and wont stop frighting with me untill he gets he's way it did use to be this way but he want away on hoildays for 3 months (i was studing so coulding go with) and since than he has been competly different we have talked about it but he just said it' my fault
2006-07-22 06:59:43 · 16 answers · asked by jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
End it, a relationship needs compromise which he obviously isn't prepared to do. If you continue like this he will continue blaming his failings on you, and is that someone you really want to spend your life with?
2006-07-22 07:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me that u r a very smart girl, it's just that u love this guy and want the relation to work out. but the guy is a fool. dump him. he doesn't deserve u. what he deserve is a whore that can smash his brains out, since he is a trash himself. you deserve a better man far more from what he is, a low lying cockroach. get away from him. this guy doesn't have self respect, that's why he does not respect you. i know that you will find the right guy for you, a guy that will love you, and respect you, and adore you, a guy that will never put you down but a shoulder you can always rely on. cheer up girl, don't waste your time to a guy like him. i wish you all the best and happiness that you deserve. good luck mr right is just around the corner.
2006-07-22 15:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by raddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not right of him to be like that to u. And u don't need someone like that. He don't want to think that he could do anything wrong. They just want to make it someone else fault. And thats not good for u to stay with someone like that. Try to talk with him again and tell him just how u feel. And if u don't change how u act around me then u could tell him that u are going to leave him for good.
2006-07-22 14:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him you will give him one more shot and if he messes up its over. i also had the problem of not tellig my girlfriend nice things after a couple of years. But in my mind i thought she already knew so that could be the case. The problem with this is that you almost become so worried that he isnt saying anything nice so you forget to say nice things also.
2006-07-22 14:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably focus on graduating high school with a command of the English language before you worry about this shmuck who is obviously just using you as entertainment whenever he gets bored.
2006-07-22 14:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by Steve S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a self centered piece of crap..you have to open your eyes and realize its your own fault for putting up w/ his nonsense...cut your loses.(meaning a whole year wasted) and move on while you still can..sometimes you think your in love and its difficult..but its just a habit that needs to be broken
2006-07-22 14:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by SHONI L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. He's not that into you anymore, and if he's gonna blame you for **** then he ain't worth it. Get a real guy who'll respect ya properly. Also, he's a lazy bum...won't go see you...
2006-07-22 14:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to learn responsibilities of accepting his owns actions and stop blaming you. If he doesnt stop, then its time to boot his butt to the curb.
2006-07-22 14:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by kf4wwe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him....finish school...and then find someone who will treat you respect....if its like this after only 1 yr...think what it will be like in 2yrs...life is to short...move on....
2006-07-22 14:07:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should dump him. Any man who doesnt treat a woman like his queen doesnt deserve her. he might have another female friend. its not your fault for his dumb attitude. kick him out, start over.
2006-07-22 14:03:59 · answer #10 · answered by elmucki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋