First of all my husband has my ssn and banking account number. He has already lied to me about why he wanted my car payment info. He said it was because I submitted a new lease and finance HAD to know that info. Well, I've found out that he lied to me. In fact, he asked me that questions two months after I filed my pro se divorce, so really he is forbidden to get loans during a pending divorce. He is in Germany and forced me to stay in the U.S.
My question: I don't think he is stupid enough to get a loan in my name,. but I have every reason to believe that he got an advance on his pay, using MY expenses, not his. I know he bought a computer around that time. Would they give him an advance to buy a computer????? or maybe he bought a car. All I know is that this man cannot be trusted at all. By the way, I had the car put into my mother's name and he knew this.
Any feedback would be appreciated.
2006-07-22 05:57:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Military
Sound like this would be a personal problem ... you might want to talk with your Chaplin at your husbands unit .. there are bad people in the every military .. If you are not at your husbands unit/base go to the nearest military base and talk with the post Chaplin...
2006-07-22 06:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by ralphtheartist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he has your social security number and bank account information, doesn't mean he can get a loan in your name. He would need Power Of Attorney for something like that. Furthermore, he doesn't need to use you as a reason to get an advance on his pay. I've known people in the Military that got advances without being married or having kids! And even if he did use you as an excuse, why do you care? He's the one that has to pay it back, not you! You've been on here bitching about him more then once, why don't you contact his command and do something about all this stuff you're claiming he is doing? I have been a Military wife long enough to know that if your claims of everything you say he is doing, or has done is true, his butt would be in serious trouble. And I don't care if he is in Germany, and you're in the US, you could still contact his Command. Really, either do something about him, or let it go. Don't try to make it sound like he has done all of this stuff you have named in this posting, and other postings, and the Military will do nothing to help you. I think you're just upset that the marriage is over, and you're desperate to find a way to get even with him.
2006-07-22 07:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by Naples_6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they can get pay advances or do a debit off of their pay to purchase items at the PX. He wouldn't be able to do a pay advance for a large purchase such as a car. It is a possibility that he has used your expenses for an application for a loan but I'm not sure why he would do this. The least amount of bills he could put down would be more incentive for a bank to loan money. The only thing that I can think of is if he was being activated (put on active duty in a war zone) than he can get your loan information and request that the interest rate be dropped while he is in the war zone. This appears under the Soldier and Sailor Act.
2006-07-22 12:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can apply for an advance for just about any reason.
Run a credit check on your self and see what is on it. That way you know if he did get a loan in your name.
You can get hold of his company commander by the address to his unit in Germany, and ask the commander what is going on. He should also be giving you money while he is there. At least 500 to 1000 dollars, because he is getting BAQ (basic housing Allowance) That is for you, if he is keeping it he will be in trouble. The commander will give you all of his pay but a few hundred dollars. I was a Staff Sergent in the army before I got out. I had to deal with some of this stuff with my soldiers. Call the Company Commander and see what is going on. He will know because he will have to sign off on any advances, or any pay change that he ask for.
2006-07-22 06:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by mike67333 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The military has no obligation to spouses and family members whatsoever. Their priority is and always should be, the military member. Your only redress is to find a civilian lawyer well versed in military regs with regards to BAH and child support issues. the ONLY thing a SM is required to pay a spouse while deployed or on Unacompanied orders is BAH. period. anything else requires a court order, froma civilian court.
if he has defrauded the military by falsely claiming expenses, eventually he will be found out. but the only time he can get 'paid' for you(expenses)is during a PCS move when dependants are authorized.
2006-07-22 06:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by Mrsjvb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 01:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do Military wives think that they have some special dispensation with regard to their husband's job? YOU are not married to the Army, you are married to HIM. Stop blaming the Army for his behaviour, Officers have far better things to concern themselves with than your marital squabbles. Get the divorce and a decent job, and move on.
2006-07-22 07:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am married to a sailor. he can't sneeze and me not know about it. i would suggest you start looking into his finances and tallying them up. you also need to check his LES for advancements of any sort. get down to business. you can do alot more being where you are at. and don't underestimate his stupidity. check your credit report for inquiries. you don't want to pay for his loans!
2006-07-22 06:43:59 · answer #8 · answered by allkoei 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go down to the PSD and talk to them about it. Ask them about his pay and things like that....
2006-07-24 11:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by neonate_mistress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋