How do you get a guy to notice you but is a fraid to get hurt.?

Question

What do you have to do to get notice by someone that you really like but is scared that they will not like you back

Answer 1

so u r the one afraid to get hurt? just b natural, not too pushy and if it works, it works, if not, not. it won't work otherwise anyways, right?

Answer 2

Well your question doesn't make it clear as to what you want. Do you want to get noticed or do you want to know if he'll like you?

I don't do this often so here it goes, from the Mrs.

Being direct in saying that you like him, without the environment of having him feel uncomfortable or yourself, is the place you want to be.

Being ready for what he says, either rejection or complementary, is what you need to prepared for. Be ready to take it what ever the answer is. Important: DO NOT GET MAD!

Consider what your desired outcome is of moving forward with this relationship. Be willing and able to take on the undesirables and the desirable, whatever they may be.

Inquiry: always try to understand where they other person is coming from and be prepared to tell them where you are coming from. Communication is the most important aspect of any relationship regardless of nature, i.e: business, personal, etc. Negotiate the terms rationally and give and take where it is necessary.

GOOD LUCK !

Answer 3

Just throw a few hints about some of the good things he does after a bit go for the plunge tell him how nice and good looking he is...And look at it this way if it don't work out well its not meant to be..Your still plenty young so still plenty more fish in the ocean..
Good luck to you just do it what the heck is it going to hurt.

Answer 4

It is the same for guy's too, you'll just have to take that chance and talk to him. I wouldn't come on to strong but giggle at his jokes and smile real big when he comes into the room and after a while give him a wink or better yet give him that up and down look like your checking him out and let him see you do it. Good luck.

Answer 5

Ask yourself what's worse.

A. You never let this guy know how you feel - coulda been so great.

B. You take a chance - let him know how you feel and he either feels the same or rejects you.

Now check your pulse - if you are alive - truely alive you have to choose A. otherwise you are wasting oxygen

Remember there are plenty more guys out there and time is precious. Don't waste time- let him know how you feel then move on to the next guy if need be.

Answer 6

do you know the guy? if you spot him in the mall smile and look away. also, it does not hurt to be a brace chick and go to him and introduce yourself. rules that guys need to make the first move? Yes, i sometimes agree, but i have made the first move with 2 guys and both of them are great friends

Answer 7

You're thinking too hard about all this. Just spend some time with the guy. Talk to him. Become his friend and he may see how good you are and in return begin to like you.

Answer 8

iv been through that if your have someone that's close to him get that person to ask what you think about you then get you person that's close to him to ask what he wants in girl and what ever it is try it out if its to much don't try it but tell him you like him unless you see he likes you back i told the man i liked and he said he sees me as a friend so try it!!!!

Answer 9

try talking to him, flirting a little, see how he responds to that, find out his interests, and if for example he says something like he wants to see the superman movie, then suggest that you guys go to it. but most important find out if he is seeing anyone first or likes any one first.

Answer 10

Try just being nice to a guy