We finally are going to have sex but my boyfriend want to have sex without a condom and I can't have a baby I still want to live my teenage years hang with my friends and if i have a baby everthing will change what should I do.
2006-07-22 05:31:50 · 51 answers · asked by penny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
XXXXXXXXXXX You need a new boyfriend, is the bottom line. If a guy doesn't respect you enough to use a condom you have a huge chance of getting pregnant. Don't let him talk you into this. NO GLOVE....NO LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! XXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-22 05:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it... if he is so insistent on sex without a condom he is only thinking of himself (very selfish) and this is not the type of guy you want to get pregnant by.
Talk to someone at a planned parenthood clinic - see what options are available for your protection and learn how to put on a condom... really, there is a right way to do it so it won't tear.
Most guys don't mind wearing a condom... it's not an issue, and the reduced sensitivity (which is minimal) can actually enhance the experience for both of you by prolonging his ejaculation.
Having unprotected sex is not worth the risk.
2006-07-22 05:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel this way, listen to your conscious its definetly telling you something. Don't listen to these horny boys, they only want to have sex with you, then leave you. That's the case most of the times. Do not have sex without a condom, it will definetly improve your chances of having a baby, and that's something you dont want to do. You should be able to live out your teenage years and hang out with the friends, and definetly a baby will change all of that. So please darling, be smart about it. If he doesn't want to have sex with a condom, he definetly doesn't care about you and your opinions. Stand your ground, and show em' whose the boss. If he really loves you or like you, he'll wait, or he'll use a condom.
2006-07-22 05:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by Danyizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to have sex with himself if he's not going to use the condom. Just remember though, a condom may reduce the odds by a lot, but you still could get pregnant. But he need to keep his little sperm factory to himself if he's unwilling to honor your wishes. A baby will complicate your life a lot more than it will his, so he's not seeing your side of it. There's no hurry for having a baby, enjoy the freedom of being young without so much to drag you back.
2006-07-22 05:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by fishing66833 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not have sex with out a condom!! Not only can you get pregnant you can also get a disease from him. That he probable has because he dose not use a condom. You are sleeping not only sleeping with him but all the girls he has sleep with in the past. If he truly cared about you he would not do something so irresponsible or dangerous!!
2006-07-22 05:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by usserydog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex. If you're not old/mature enough to raise a baby, or face the results that may come from sex (STD's), you're not ready.
There is no form of birth control that is 100% effective, so what if he did use a condom and you still got pregnant? You'd have to face that, and you've admitted you're not ready.
2006-07-22 05:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT! I got pregnant twice in High school because my boyfriend was going to "pull it"... there is NO safety for you if he doesn't, and YOU will be the one with the Life choices if you A= get pregnant or B= get an infection or disease.
In my experiance once you give in to sex a lot of things happen, If he cant respect you enough to protect you then he wont respect you when it is over, so why would you want to do it with him anyway?
DONT let him give you "A reputation" he will talk, and it really hurts... Trust me.
2006-07-22 05:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I first got with this girl last summer, she said, " I don't have to use a condom. "
That made me think, yuck this girl is a dirty whore, and where has she been !
No offense, but your boyfriend sounds like a filthy pig, he should respect you, and be glad to put on a condom.
He must be trying to get you pregnant, so that he can control you.
Cheap corner store condoms don't feel comfortable, and they can even break.
Tell him to find a condom that fits him best.
Not to be nasty, but just to answer the question, MAGNUM XL Condoms feel good, you get alot of room to work the vagina, and I've never had 1 break on me, no matter how rough I jammed my ex-girls vagina, they fit perfect, and feel like I don't even have 1 on.
Tell him to find the perfect brand, and fit, or to leave you alone.
2006-07-22 05:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter had a baby at age 17. Her life was never the same. If it's too much of a hassle, think of what it will be like getting up every night with a crying baby. Remember he may not stick around to help you with those late night feedings and the changing of diapers. Hold your ground.!
2006-07-22 05:35:12 · answer #9 · answered by seeitknowit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know what you have to do since he insists on having sex without a condom you better have him tested to make sure that he has no std's to give you i have a friend of mine she was in the same situation but she never listened he insisted not to use a condom so she went ahead that 1 time and got aids his excuse was if he had it she should have it to then he was certain she would never cheat on him he says since they both have it now they have it together and thats what he wanted for her to stay with him and now he thinks that they will die together ........ be careful i hope you are smarter then that use your head because once you got it it aint no turning back........
2006-07-22 05:40:32 · answer #10 · answered by libby71763 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then he doesnt get sex and dont let him pressure you into sex without a condom you have to protect yourself everyone thinks oh it wont happen to me um yes it will
Tell him to wrap it up or keep it in his pants
2006-07-22 05:35:06 · answer #11 · answered by roonie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋