Ladies! How do you tell a woman that you're just not interested?

Question

I consider myself about average as far as looks. I'm good-looking, but I have a few scars on my face, and I'm a bit overweight. The problem is that I sometimes have women "throw themselves" at me. How do I tell them I'm not interested, without offending them?

Answer 1

Honesty is the best policy. Just tell her straight in no uncertain terms your not interested. It spares a lot of heartache and confusion later on. Dont send mixed signals. This too creates tension and misunderstandings,

Answer 2

Everyone has superficial things that they would like or even love to change. That is not the matter of your heart.

If girls are throwing themselves at you, consider that a sign of flattery and say something like:

"You are beautiful, I really like to get to know people for who they are not what they can offer me."

Be ready to accept the terms of going on a date or just conversation without the loss of inhibition and see what they are about. The best way to not offend someone is to treat them the same way that you desire to be treated, with equal opportunity. If for some reason you feel it doesn't work out, tell them that. Don't beat around the bush, being direct after you have given them a chance is much more respectable than the alternative.

Question for you to answer for yourself: What are you looking for?

Answer 3

Well, it depends on what you mean by "throw themselves"? But, you should just be as kind as you can be, yet, tell them that you aren't interested in seeing anyone right now. The bad thing about that is that a lot of women will start thinking that you are a real challenge, and will throw themselves even harder at you. There are a lot of men who would like to have your problem!

Answer 4

What a horrible problem to have, haha.

If you're seriously asking this question, here's what I would do:

BE HONEST! I hate when a guy stops calling all of a sudden, or just starts acting like an asshole so the girl will stop bothering with him. Don't tell them you're dating someone either, b/c what if they catch you hitting on one of their friends or something, haha? Tell the woman nicely that you like her as a friend, but would rather keep it platonic.

Good luck with the ladies killa.

Answer 5

You are flattered that they would consider you as their friend, but right now you are not interested in any relationship with them. Sorry. If they don't get the message, then it's okay to offend them. Tell them you tried to be nice but to back off and what part of "No thanks" are they not hearing?

Answer 6

Just politely tell them that there is no chemistry or whatever. The key is to tell them how you would like to be told if the situation were reversed. Most women, like most men, would rather have a straight forward, honest answer than not.

Answer 7

There really isn't a good way of telling someone you r not interested to you might just say that "im not interested in being in a relationship right now"

Answer 8

The best way is the honest approach. Just say thank you for the thought but you're not interested. Anything else is game playing.

Answer 9

Do you think that they're doning it out of pity? Is that what you don't want or are you just uninterested? Either way, you can just say that you're in a serious relationship. And if that doesn't work, just avoid them.

Answer 10

If they trow themselves at you tell them to back off cuz if they dont respect u enough not to do that they arent worth it