I know how i deal with this, but how would you approach having sex for the first time with a GF/BF or anything else.
2006-07-22 05:09:53 · 10 answers · asked by ross h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
slowly, and enjoy the 'getting to know you' phase. - it doesn't get any better.
2006-07-22 05:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by 'Dr Greene' 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whether it's your first time ever, or just with this person, the key is knowledge.
how long have you know this person and how much do you know about them?
have they been tested? have you?
there are many things to consider whenever you want to have sex with anyone.
like, where is your relationship going afterwards, is there a relationship or is it a one night stand, maybe a little sex between friends?
when you find the right person and you want to have sex with them, it is kind of crass to just come out and say 'let's f**k!'
but you don't want to scare them away by saying 'let's make love'
ask general questions like what does that person like in bed,or as foreplay.this could help set the mood.
however you feel most comfortable approaching it is up to you,but take into consideration what the other person may feel about it as well.
goodk luck!!
2006-07-22 05:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by mistressmorro 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush in to a sexual relationship. Don't plan to have sex, just get to know the person first.
When you really know each other, then natural sex will follow.
Too many relationships/marriages are built on lust, they fade fairly soon as they are not soulmates.
2006-07-22 05:34:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sing her/him (or anything else) a serenade in which you explain your dire and desperate need for a jump in the sack, and sink to your knees while doing so.
2006-07-22 05:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything Else??? - I suppose if its a gorilla, You could just beat your chest and run at them, maybe groom them. This wont work for a woman though. lol
2006-07-22 05:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could not understand this Q. Should it not be like 'How did you approach......' Well how do I know until I do it?
2006-07-22 05:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by littleboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think just run with it. if sex happens it happens i don't take a min to think about "ok how do i start this..." hit the door running
2006-07-22 05:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by SLICK77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no rush is there? get to know this person very well their likes and dislikes ,be comfortable with this person then take it from there it will be mutual and you will know it.
2006-07-22 05:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by f.harrison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty please.
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2006-07-22 05:13:10 · answer #9 · answered by Bacchus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its a woman u want sum bum fun and continue from there
2006-07-22 21:17:05 · answer #10 · answered by darth_ashmore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋