I've liked this guy alot since the day I met him. He and his fiancee broke up a few months ago, and I've heard (although I'm not certain) that he's looking to date again. Would it be wrong to go out with him? I am friends with his ex.
2006-07-22 04:55:24 · 18 answers · asked by Dusty Shades 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How deep is the friendship? How much do you like this guy? Ask these questions to yourself then start from there. If you are really a close friend of the X then you might want to ask her if its alright to date her ex fiance, I'm sure she will tell you its OK (you know - pride; et al) - so just test the water first before plunging in.
2006-07-22 05:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by diosa_jdpv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found in the past that I have never been interested with any of my best friend's ex men. I dated a guy for about a month and about 8 months later my friend decided that she liked him. She talked to me about it and as she already knew, it wouldn't bother me cause I was never serious about him. Fiancee means that at some point in time they were serious enough to spend the rest of their lives together. I think that would be a very sore spot to touch.
2006-07-22 05:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissy w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!
If you care at all for you friend you should not get involved with this guy. It will make your friends feel like ****.
Plus the world is full of guys, find your own. Then there will be no hard feelings between you and your friend.
Good luck!
2006-07-22 04:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by misscanada_y2k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok imagine... do you hate him because he isn't any longer your boyfriend anymore and also you nonetheless like him or is it genuine hate? both way in case you hated him then your acceptable pal would not have dated him after he changed into your (ex) boyfriend. He received't favor you to interrupt them up, yet your acceptable pal has to imagine of you too, for the reason that she is your acceptable pal.
2016-10-15 02:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask your friend how she would feel about it. Be honest and if it bothers her then assure her that you won't do it. There are other fish in the sea. If it doesn't bother her, at least you gave her the heads up and there won't be any drama and she won't feel as if you were sneaking behind her back. Good luck.
2006-07-22 09:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be wrong to go out with your friends ex fiancee b/c she is your friend and you shouldn't do that to her
2006-07-22 05:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by Tabitha G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r about to break on of the codes 4 friendship...NEVER date or have sex wit u friends ex's.
2006-07-22 05:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by tapthisphatazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Put yourself in her shoes. Would you want her (or any friend for that matter) to date your ex fiance'? I know I wouldn't
2006-07-22 04:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though i would never do it myself, you might want to talk with your friend about it and see how she feels about you wanting to date her ex. just because it didnt work for them, doesnt always mean it wont for you. take that into consideration also.
2006-07-22 04:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let it be and not date, cause it will rip your friendship apart. It will make your friend hate you so Dont do it.
2006-07-22 04:59:55 · answer #10 · answered by usmc2209 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋