I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year now and things started off great. But now he keeps acting weird. We live together but I have this feeling like I don't trust him. This is why, he just started this new job and he always tells me about this girl he talks to there, I mean I hear her name so much. Well me and his sister went into his work yesterday to see when he got off and there he was sitting and talking to her, mind you he was already off and neglected to call me. When these 2 first started working together apparently they must of been talking so much that the boss let them go on break together and then came out and "how are my love birds doing" you must be getting a little to close to somebody if someone says that right? I don't know I'm just real confused right now, what should I do?
2006-07-22 04:50:38 · 13 answers · asked by Holly F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh my gosh girl!! i would be pissed off. i'm sorry to say that, but the same thing has happened to me. it's the worst feeling in the world too. and living with someone, you think that nothin like this could ever happen. if you have a bad feeling about it, then jst plain out ask him what's up and why he acts the way that he does. cause you know damn well, that if you were doing the same thing, he would be furious and would be saying that you are cheating and bla bla bla. just go with your extincts. it may hurt, but what happens will only make you stronger and you def don't want to walked on. how old are you two?? i used to live with my ex boyfriend too.
2006-07-22 04:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpea 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think you are being paranoid. It definitely sounds to me that even if nothing is really going on, there is an intimate relationship. If they are just friends, that's ok. If he has a crush on her, it's not. No matter how good your relationship is, no one is immune to being attracted to someone else. The question is will they act on it. You really need to ask him about her in a light way. If you know him well and can "read" him, you'll be able to tell what he really feels. If you think he is truly interested in her, tell him to move out (or you do the same) until he is sure of what he wants.
2006-07-22 05:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say u r panicing a lil, but at the same time, although he might not do anything to disappoint u but still he should be attracted to that girl at least a lil, u wanna win this situation, find out what it is he is attracted to and try to be perfect at that urself. just get him to talk about what he likes more about her in one of his regular conversations about her. plus if u ask me try to make him feel the same about u coz challenge always works. at least it has for me.
2006-07-22 04:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by hz3071 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this **** is a trip! my man called me from work yesterday and said that his general manager pulled him and two of his employees in the office and said that these women were fighting and it was about him. he tells me that he had no clue they were even talking about him. i'm like come on! girl if you feel something is wrong then go with that. remember: where there's smoke, there's fire!
2006-07-22 04:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl1977 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to my friend and they broke up. I can't really say that it's going to end up great, but try and talk to him about it. If it doesn't work out, you'll definitely find someone else. If it does, great!
2006-07-22 04:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by JZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that people at his work are reading more into the whole thing than they should, but I think you're right to be cautious. Maybe you should ask him what's going on with this friendship.
2006-07-22 06:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by cryptoscripto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him an ultimatum. No more flirting with this girl or you're through. Don't be surprised if he chooses her instead of you. It sounds like he has already fallen for her. Move on and forget him.
2006-07-22 04:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer. Give yourself the benefit of some time and learn to let him go. You will be fine. Been there.
2006-07-22 04:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by boomer46 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it unless it gets worse. Tell him it bothers you and see what he does. Tell him you don't need to hear about her so much. If he continues, then perhaps you need to get a new boyfriend.
2006-07-22 04:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by foofoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God if you think they're getting to close and friendly break up with him.
I feel really sorry for you...truly!
2006-07-22 04:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋