i know that may sound crazy.
some may say go out and get someone pregnant, sleep around and fornicate.
i know single guys adopt all the time but adoption is costly and time consuming.
i see everyday some child is murdered, raped, dropped off at a hospital or neglected.
God gave me this huge heart that I love children and I am yearning to be a dad.
I'm 33 and I haven't found the right person yet. It is very tempting to go out and sleep with someone just to be a father but I know that wouldn't be right.
I often pray that someone would bring a baby into my life off the street, that they could not take care of it. Some say I'm dreaming while I hear to keep the faith and believe it will happen.
I love hispanic women and there aren't any where I stay. I love the full-figured hispanic women also. Hard to find.
So, tell me how crazy I am, trying to live faithfully but desperately wanting to be a dad.
People have always admired how children look up to me, strangers kids 2.
2006-07-22 04:37:24 · 9 answers · asked by fat t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you have the money you can always hire someone to have your baby for you.
They are also trying to develope a way for males to carry a baby, perhaps you can find a research hosptial near you and can sign up to be one of the chosen few that are in a study.
2006-07-22 04:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I just want you to know just your question touched me, you are most definitely a special man. I am a grandmother of 2 little girl's we only had one son, their daddy. Children are God's special blessings. I will add you to my prayer list for your hearts desire for a child.
Try & go to a single group at a integrated Church where there would be Hispanic & other singles looking for the same in life. There you would meet someone that has the same Christian views as you. Honestly honey there are so many woman out there with the same tugging at their hearts.
Listen to me "I BELIEVE STRONGLY THERE IS SOMEONE WAITING FOR YOU RIGHT NOW !!" I feel in my heart that with a year's time YOU WILL MEET HER & instantly know she is the one God has for you to share your life with & a family.
Pray, pray, pray is the thing to do BUT BELIEVE what you are praying & ask God several times a day to make the meeting draw each of you together & without a doubt HE will !
2006-07-22 04:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by day by day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How you feel is beautiful, and I believe that God WILL bless you with a child WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT. Don't make it happen for yourself, or that will end up a heartbreaking situation. Wait for God to make it happen for you. He will. And when He does, it will work out just fine. You may think it has to be a big, Hispanic woman in your life, but God may have someone else in mind. Have patience, and don't overlook what may be right in front of your eyes.
2006-07-22 04:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello. I'm glad that your keeping up with your faith. I know it's hard to wait for things. But, you should put all your faith in God and trust that He will do the right thing. Which is true. God will give you a child if he thinks it's right, and he will take the right time to get you that child if he does. My advice: don't go sleeping around with any random person, wait for the one special person that you will be happy with, and spend your life with her. Trust me, if God thinks its right, he'll do it perfectly in time.
2006-07-22 04:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by bouncy_tigger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have faith, and He will give you the desires of your heart. Live in Him, and don't listen to those people who say He can't do everything, because they haven't experienced God's power. Pray in faith, frequently, and without doubting, and it will be granted unto you. Perhaps not in the way you think, but it shall happen.
2006-07-22 04:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by Beverly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God cannot do all things for you. believing in God's goodness doesn't mean that when you pray, it shall be granted unto you. He gave us liberty and intellect to come after and get the things that we want in life. He will give to us the things that we need in His own time.
be patient. in time, you will find the right person whjo can give you the child that you earnestly wish for. in the meantime, continue being the good and faithful person that you are.
2006-07-22 04:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi fAT t!!!!
ofcourse buddy....trust in God will surely bless u wid a child....c if u r not blessed wid a child den don b angry or frustrated cuz whatever happens , happens only 4 a gud reason....v should alwayz think dat anythin much worse den dis can also happen....EG:- while pregnancy ur wife or gf may die....sumthin sumthin....alwayz hav trust in god buddy....dis iz de way i think now its upto u...
*****HOpe U liKEd My anS....*****
2006-07-22 04:47:58 · answer #7 · answered by $@LLu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't call you crazy. it 's really a nice thing that you have a place in your heart for little children.
2006-07-22 04:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Glam Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God can not do all things.
2006-07-22 04:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by miketorse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋