I (like most guys) can't seem to fall in love with just one girl.I see pretty women of every race ,color and creed every day and would love to be with them,exploring each others bodies.I am being honest and truthful,am i wrong to feel this way?am i alone?
2006-07-22 04:36:26 · 8 answers · asked by bjec22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Elaborating on what Kaylora said, desire is not love. If you feel the need to experience each of the beauties you behold, then it might be best you stay single. Commitment, however, is all about making a heartfelt decision...and honoring it. If you don't know the difference between the two, then you're emotionally underdeveloped...immature emotionally. It's a 'guy thing', and some men never grow beyond that. I also suspect that it's a bit narcissistic attribute...your feelings of desire being more important than anything else. No, you are not alone...but you are speaking about a purely physical/sexual thing...no REAL emotion there. Are you happy with that? Will you always be? If so, then it doesn't matter.
2006-07-22 04:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by tat2me1960 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's never wrong to feel the way you feel, or be who you are--as long as you are, as you say, being truthful and honest with your partners.
Remember in the long term, though, finding the right person isn't the goal. Becoming the right person is what makes you ready to commit to a relationship with one person.
Be safe!
2006-07-22 04:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by Love2Sew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh youth...when it's the scenery & not the quality of the canvas that attracts you. Please don't confuse the desire with love. They really are not the same. And until you can commit to the truth and extreme effort of a mature relationship, you will always find the grass greener on the other side of the fence.
2006-07-22 04:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by kaylora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definately not alone pal. The scenery is beautiful today and gets better with each wakening day
2006-07-22 04:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not, every body feels that way, but sometimes you have to learn how to control your urges.
2006-07-22 04:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really. i think its wrong to actually do it, but to feel that way is not so bad. don't give ur body away so easily though.
2006-07-22 04:42:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i love my husband but i also like looking at women is that wrong. i don't think its wrong cuz ppl should do what they like
2006-07-22 04:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong.. assuming that you are a young or young-ish guy and not married..
2006-07-22 04:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋