y is this notion about fat guys that they are jolly guys & not good or serious enuf for dating & sex?

Question

we hv heart too like those so called dateable guys?we r serious n fun to be with in bed n out of it, do these gals feel threatened they might get crushed under us...

Answer 1

Just stereotyping, they think that they can always get someone better till they are left out in the cold and then realize that beauty is more then skin deep

Answer 2

i have met and some really sexy, and cool fat guys, its all about the way u carry urself. If i see a fat guy acting like a clown all the time or any guy I'm not gonna go for ya. I do believe that fat guys have to work harder than a regular sized person to get the women that they want. that's just the way it is. make sure that people don't see u as just the fat crazy and jolly dude, be complex.

Answer 3

a lot has to do with are you pschotic.
a lot of men with wieght problems not only have poor self image but many other problems as well.
i gave it a shot with a big guy once.
he had no social skills whatsoever and was a totally clingy b**ch.
and not the kind i enjoy.
i'm with a kind of big guy now, but he's not my b**ch and he actually knows someone other than me and my family.
that and he's really laid back. besides, i like my guy with a little love on him!
the problem i had with the first one was he was such a tight a$$, you couldn't pull a pin out of there with a rocketship!!!
point is, be yourself,relax,have fun, and ms.right or even ms. right now will come along.(besides, ms. right now could have that now part dropped off if you dig each other like that! don't push it though)

Answer 4

it sounds to me like you need some confidence when you but yourself out there. the best i EVER had was with a guy nicknamed Mt Wes (all 390 pound of him was wonderful). find a woman you can laugh with first, go from there, there are a lot of REALLY fun positions, not every BODY is cut out 4 missionary work! have you read Kama Sutra or Tantra? there's nothing sexier than a confidant man no matter what his size. you have to be comfortable with your body before anyone else will be. luck 2 u

Answer 5

The problem is your attitude, and the women you are hoping to date. Don't set your sights on someone that you can't get!!!! Would you date a fat gal? Or are you looking at only slim, blonde, etc.....? YOU need to be reasonable, and don't set YOUR expectations so high, or you will keep getting your balloon popped, so to speak. There are plenty of gals who would date you....you just won't open your eyes and SEE who they are.

Answer 6

I think that women who would not date a big man b/c he is big, are very shallow. And you would not want to be with that person anyway

As far as the Happy deminer. Most big guys seem jolly and happy b/c most that i have found are happy with themselves.

I personally like big men. You can really be yourself and they really know how to treat a lady. Plus you don't feel like your gonna break them in the sack!!!!

Answer 7

I'm a big guy, and I don't think they are scared of us. Just be yourself and show the woman you want to hook up with that you aren't scared of asking her out. Go out with her enough and things will start to happen. Hey I got married while I was a big guy and I still am. I do have sex too.

Answer 8

I like a meaty man! I don't want some muscle bound knuckle head or a skinny little twig man. Give me a fleshy dude and I'm happy. =0)

Answer 9

bcuz i never met a fat guy who didnt act jolly and nonsexable
maybe its a complex or summin where they feel like they have to be jolly to be liked

Answer 10

My husband is a big guy and he's sexy as hell! I like a man who can physically dominate me, in a playful kind of way, and a big man can definitely do that!