ok so my girlfriend and i broke up after 5 yrs., and she was the one to do it. Its so hard for me not to think of her and who she is with. I feel depressed and i feel anxiety on the inside, but im not showing it on the outside. How can i get past this? She says that she is young and she wants to make sure this is what she really wants. She still tells me she loves me, and i love her. What can i do to not potentialy ruin things in then future for us, if there is one?
2006-07-22 04:06:36 · 6 answers · asked by t2006s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have no choice but to let her go. Most likely she will be back though. If you are the kind of guy I think you are, she will realize what she has lost, and want you back. In the meantime, why don't you go out and date some yourself? It will help pass the time, and who knows, you just might find someone more wonderful than her. Good Luck!!
2006-07-22 04:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude,
here is a gal who's plainly and clearly telling you that she thinks something better may come up and she doesn't want to take chances. I wonder why you would want to be with a girl who doesnt already truly believe you are the best after 5 years! If you couldnt prove it to her in 5 years, forget it, and forget her. Let her move on to someone "better", and you must do the same too.
2006-07-22 11:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by cool_bythepool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is move on. All you can do is remember the good times you've shared and try to forget the bad ones. You can't always make people see things your way, and if she really wants this, she can go back for it. But if you do see her, always be friendly toward her. GIve her a smile or say hi. That way, if she wants to go back, she'll know the door is always open.
2006-07-22 11:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by Holly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have watched my youngest son ( 21 ) go through the same thing since age 17. Seriously 3 times he has really been hurt. And oddly enough the girls said the same thing yours did. So... I bet she is telling you the truth on how she feels. give her space. But, don't close yourself off to others.
Could be just when you least expect it; The real love of your life will enter in. My son started university this past spring and he is suddenly very, very, popular and very, very happy. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-07-22 11:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by Makingwishes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over it. It's over for good. She's not coming back, and you are going to have to live with out her. Don't worry, you'll pull through. Time heals ALL wounds, believe me.
2006-07-22 11:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a talk with her dont let her go but if she doesnt listen to u then..................
2006-07-22 11:15:56 · answer #6 · answered by kathiza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋