i have been single for a long time im getting board of it now and i feel its the way im acting around people and maybe what i say to people i know
what can i do
2006-07-22 04:03:54 · 15 answers · asked by ak222002 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you are coming over as too desperate for a relationship and this is what puts people off. Try not looking for one, but just accept people as a possible friend and see what develops from there. Don't act bored or depressed as this can put off the opposite sex too! Just be normal, smile and above all be friendly!
Good luck!
2006-07-22 04:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well what works for me might not work for you. I'm a 21 year old Mexican and I'm not sure what you are. It wouldn't be very good advise if I told you to go to a Mexican bar and tell a girl "hey mami! let me buy a drink". you might be a 14 year old Filipino guy and that my might friend is not going to work. Have you ever heard of "different strokes for different folks"? be your self. everybody has their own ways and styles. don't be in such a hurry girls come and go. sometimes they just take a long time to come. one thing for sure! you can always spoil a girl and they will always stick around you. buy them a rose girls love that. listen to their problems (trust me they have many) girls like guys that can listen. if your not too good with words DON'T TALK! that could be a turn off for any girl especially if your saying all the wrong things. and for the final lesson: DON'T BULLS**T. girls could detect when a guy is all talk and no action, don't say anything if you cant back it up with facts. be your self I know you might hear that a lot but it works!
2006-07-22 04:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by Tommy vercetti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be careful that you don't come across as 'desperate'. People can almost smell it when someone is hung up on finding a partner (instead of just enjoying life & letting it happen!) & it really is a turn off - it has the effect of opposite polar magnets - it repels people away! Just be yourself, those who genuinely like you for yourself will make the effort to get to know you better. Good luck tho!
2006-07-22 05:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by Blah blah blah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First be kind. Treat others was you want to be treated. Second, Listen. truly be interested in what others have to say. Do not 'take over' the conversation. People like (and need) to talk about them self's and things in their life. Be there for them and they will respond.
2006-07-22 04:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about it. A relationship always comes along when you're not expecting it. Also i think people can sense when you're desperate so if you stop worrying and just enjoy yourself you'll become more attractive.That's why you always get hit on more when you're with someone.
2006-07-22 04:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confedent in who you are. People are attracted to that. Whatever you say be sure of your self. Women like stregnth since they're the weaker vessal, they seek a stronger vessel to protect them.
2006-07-22 04:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by A man ready to commit. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go outlooking you'll never find it , go out for the fun and the excitement of the possiblity that you may meet your ideal match , if you don't well hey ho you can go out and enjoy all over again the next week , oh and don't go to same old place week in week out that is what could be boring you....have fun
2006-07-22 04:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by whataluvlylassie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go where there are members opf the opposite sex. Start to talk to them. Get close to one of them. Date,have sex,get married.
Have kids. Grow old. Die. Repeat as needed.
2006-07-22 04:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't worry myself about that!! Just get on with your life as normal. Do things, other than having someone with you that makes you happy! I spend time with movies and music and my writing....
2006-07-22 04:22:16 · answer #9 · answered by Mamamia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself so you don't get caught in a web of lies. Someone out there will appreciate you for being you
2006-07-22 04:07:00 · answer #10 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋