But you have nothing in common with the other person.
Its a case of the di#k says yes but the brain says no.
2006-07-22 04:00:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there's no point in sticking with someone who doesn't stimulate you intellectually as well. then you're just wasting time and taking risks, what if she falls for you while you still think its a fling? she will be hurt and you will feel like a jerk.
just end it, how hot could she possibly be if she has nothing to say? looks can only get you so far.....
but brains will take you to the end of the earth.
hope that helps.
kisses,
fiz
2006-07-22 12:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by zeev_84 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well if you do not have anything common, and don't love or share same interest then there is no point of continuing the relationship.
Just have a sexual relationship or just a fling if you do not have things in common and only sex, you need more things in common than just 'sex' for a REAL relationship to work out.
2006-07-22 11:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by Queenbee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how long you've been in this relationship, but if it's a new one, you're still in the "honeymoon" stage. You're getting to know each other better and sex is part of that process. In time, you'll settle down and start concentrating on an emotional relationship.
2006-07-22 11:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by Joe E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have fun. Make sure she understands that there are no strings attached. Don't lead her on to believe that you want more than just sex. She should be aware of this, and if she isn't then you need to let her know soon. You might lose the relationship, but then again, she may want the same. You have to take the risk.
2006-07-22 11:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's just about sex for the both of you, then I don't see the problem. When you're ready for something more, you'll go find it. But for right now, there's nothing wrong with enjoying what you've got.
2006-07-22 14:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by cryptoscripto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn"t a problem unless you lead this person on and let them think that this relationship is going somewhere. Don't hurt this person emotionally. Let the big head do the thinking, the little might start shrinking!
2006-07-22 11:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by cowboybabeeup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if sex is all you have then that really isnt much because to bond and have a relationship you need more then that. plan other activites to do and see if you can spark a more emotional connection, if not then its time to move on, you both deserve more and maybe it could become a booty call till you meet someone else :) hehehe
2006-07-22 11:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by princessashley2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you have to decide if the sex weighs more then the partnership. But remember that if you find someone that enjoys doing things you enjoy that the sex becomes even better.
2006-07-22 11:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd like to tell you to do the right thing and get out so you don't hurt the other person, but comeon, how often do you find great sex?! As long as you can get it, take it!!
2006-07-22 11:06:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the other person knows that your relationship revolves around sex and doesnt have a problem with it then thats great but if the other person thinks you have feeling you need you be honest and let it go from there
2006-07-22 11:06:21 · answer #10 · answered by southern angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋