i tried and we made a few mistakes. she didn't want the lights on and she was afraid to get on top. that kind of killed some of the mood right there.
what techniques should i use the next time when we are alone.
2006-07-22 03:56:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you need to work hard to satisfy your lady. you want to love her all over. don't miss an inch. she will respond to you with enthusiasm in return and you won't be disappointed.
2006-07-22 04:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How fat are you talking? Overweight or BBW? It can make a difference in energy level and technique.
When you aren't in the middle of things, spoiling a mood, tell her how much you love her, that you want to please her, and ask her to talk with you about what turns her on the most. Offer if she wants to experiment, you are willing. If you approach this subject with respect and patience, you will grow closer.
As far as being on top - remember she may be afraid of hurting you or she may not have the ability to do that well. If she has knee problems or other health issues (besides weight), it may actually be painful.
She probably does not want lights on because she is embarrased by her weight. This may change as you get closer.
2006-07-22 04:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by curiouschick18 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a big girl and I have sex regularly. How to do it depends on how fat she is and how fat you are. In my case when I was married...he was super thin so it didn't matter if I went on top because it worked fine. However the guy I'm currently with is somewhat larger than my ex and has a little bear belly. This makes it harder. Try getting to her from behind. Not anal (UNLESS SHE AGREES...SOME GIRLS LIKE IT) but enter from behind. Use toys....and reassure her that the fat or weight doesn't bother you and that you would like at least a night light on.....you don't have night vision. Do a lot of foreplay that'll help her loosen up. If she feels uncomfortable you need to be patient. But be realistic, when women are overweight they are in fact out of shape and can't bend like an elastic. Not only this but expecting for her to do a lot of the work is far fetched.....remember she is obese and it is harder for her to do some things sexually because she gets tired a lot faster.
Good Luck!
2006-07-22 04:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by bella_mexicana_rellena 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I find that the best way to have sex with a fat woman is to get drunk first.
2006-07-22 04:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 5⤋
You must always behind to avoid accident!
2006-07-22 04:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by tutax 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
roll her in flour and dive into the wet spot
2006-07-22 04:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
ask her how she wants it
2006-07-22 04:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by BrOwN eYe'D cHiCa 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
show her some photo's of McDonalds, krispy Kreme, Taco bell, and K.F.C that should REALLY turn her on.
2006-07-22 21:43:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 8⤋
use your head..
2006-07-22 04:05:25 · answer #9 · answered by bea 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont do her!!!!
2006-07-22 04:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by Absterbabe!!! 6 · 1⤊ 5⤋