Me and this guy started dateing like a month and a half ago but we have this kinda agreement that we're seeing eachother and other people( were only sleeping with eachother though...) I know he actually likes me by the way he acts, and we go out together more than with anyone else. And I like him alot, Basiclly just wanna know how I can tell him I wanna be exclusive with out scareing him away?
2006-07-22 03:55:06 · 8 answers · asked by what the... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are spending all your time with him and he with you,it shouldnt be a problem.But if you want security,the next time he mentions you being out without him tell him you no longer wish it to be that way you want to only hang out with him.This way you tell him and he can think it is his idea to be only with you.Men are funny creatures you have to make them believe it is their idea so they will be o.k. with it.Good luck God bless:O)
2006-07-22 04:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to do that, it is a risk but at least you will know and then you can accept it or not. I would say Hey I was wondering when we were going to take another step in our relationship, like exclusive dating. If he does like you enough he will go for it and if he don't then it will give you some things to think about. Good luck, I am a guy and that what I think.
2006-07-22 11:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be satisfied with what you have from him for now. What you're asking for is not to be done suddenly, you have got to take your time and at the same time you need to use your natural gift as a gurl "smartness" to achieve you aim.
2006-07-22 11:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him directly. You are certainly a trusting one when he tells you he is going out with other women but "sleeping" with only you, though.
2006-07-22 11:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't bother, the way things are he's probably doing the same with at least another three girls
2006-07-22 10:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by angellis03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and straight forward with him
2006-07-22 10:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel, he might fell that way too.
2006-07-22 10:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you do have sex with eachother
2006-07-22 10:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by BrOwN eYe'D cHiCa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋