2006-07-22 03:46:57 · 23 answers · asked by gm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ahhhhh, the dreaded timetables.....
Why are people so fixated on *ARBITRARY* timetables for emotions? So what if it's been 3 months, 6 months, 30 years, 2 days? One's feelings are never going to be truly honest if he/she governs them according to the calendar.
When this person decides he/she is in love with you, he/she will *tell* you. The calendar date should be *fully irrelevant.*
2006-07-22 16:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by wheezer_april_4th_1966 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it be, they may not be sure they love you now, but does that mean they will never love you? No.
My husband and I had been dating a while and I told him I loved him, he told me he did not feel the same. I was crushed, but I let it be, at least he was honest and did not lead me on. A few weeks later HE told me he loved me, and I knew he meant it with all of his heart. We were married less than a year later, and despite being 18 & 20 when we wed, we will be celebrating our 9th wedding anniversary in less than a week.
Sometimes people are hurt and don't want to jump into things too soon, let the person make the next move, but the "L" word is very scary to some people.
2006-07-23 16:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by sumnerrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months really isn't enough time to tell if you "love" anyone. if they are kind of giving you the inclination that they might no longer be interested then i would severe romantic ties and just be friends. BE AWARE that in your situation being romantically involved with this person is a BIG BIG BIG no no especially if they can't define how they feel for you. proceed slowly...think clearly and if it's meant to be it will be otherwise, there are other fish in the sea
2006-07-22 11:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by hellomynameis.... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way is three months enough time to know if you are in love with someone!!! Continue dating if you like and care for the person, but don't rush things!
2006-07-22 10:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Proceed slowly, love takes time to evolve and grow. 3 months is not avery long time at all.
2006-07-22 10:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by ANNIEv413 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to venture that they want to take it slow and not go about your relationship in full speed. Just because someone is not "in love" with you, doesnt mean they dont care or love you all the same. just take your time to get to know each other. dont be in such a hurry to get where you think your friends are in their relationships. That's usually the case though. We want the same happiness as they have. You'll get there...give it time!
2006-07-22 11:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it about the three month mark that is so magical? It isn't do or die at that point. Not every question need be answered by three months. If you like each other then carry on.
2006-07-22 10:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should keep dating that person. They may not say they love you but it doesn't mean that they don't care about you. give that person sometime. they may say i love you when it is the right time. they maybe scared too. If they say i love you and you didn't say it back they might get embarrassed thinking that you dont love them and might get their feelings hurt. Give it sometime and they will come around and get enough guts to say it to you.
2006-07-23 17:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by Kristina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a serious heart to heart with them so that you'll know where you stand; if that person has an agenda that does not fall in line with your own, then it's time to put that relationship behind you and move on.
2006-07-22 10:50:48 · answer #9 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone fall in love instantly. This one needs time. Which is good. To rush may be too quick and then you regret it later. Court this person and be romantic. When she/he are ready you will know.
2006-07-22 14:18:18 · answer #10 · answered by sally_little03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋