what does it mean "to lose your virginity"?

Question

well, i hope i'll get an answer to what i really wanna know. i know what changes persist at girls (like, losing the virginity), but what about boys? what changes are there? must be smnth! i heard a doctor say that there is smnth that shows if a boy is still a virgin or not...

Answer 1

The only way to tell if a boy has lost his virginity is ,He will be walking around with a massive grin on his face for weeks afterwards.

Answer 2

A virgin is someone who has never had sex. When you have sex for the first time you 'lose your virginity'.

There's no way to tell if someone has had sex or not, except by asking them. Sometimes when girls have sex for the first time they bleed a little bit, because it breaks their hymen, which is like a thin piece of skin inside the vagina. But you can also break your hymen riding a bicycle or a horse, so just because the hymen is broken doesn't mean the girl isn't a virgin.

Nothing physically changes after having sex, your body is still exactly the same. Emotionally, you might feel different, maybe more grown up. Or maybe just confused!

Remember, sex should be fun and a happy experience for both people - don't do it unless you really understand what it's all about!

Answer 3

BOYS: No way of telling.

GIRLS: No way of telling. Used to be a broken hymen was the way to tell but nowadays we are not delicate maidens who sit about doing embroidery and riding side-saddle all the time! The hymen is very likely to have been broken by doing sports, horseriding, whatever. In some Eastern cultures, they still use hymen as proof of virginity so heaven help you if you've lost that. You can get an operation to have a fake one inserted if you are rich enough.

It's a confusing question though. For example, in the 50s the randier girls would do oral (sometimes even anal) on load of boys during heavy-petting but would keep the vagina "pure" for their husband. So technically they could claim to be "virgins" upon marriage but I would question that as they were certainly no innocents.

Just make sure you are ready to lose it when you do go for it.

Virginity is like a balloon - one prick and it's gone!!

Answer 4

Sweetie, I've never heard of this. Although, sometimes after a guy has lost his virginity he suddenly thinks he's the man. So if you know of a guy who's personality has gone from calm, cool and collective, to thinking that he's the man, then he's probably gotten "some", and now he's letting it go to his head; literally.

Answer 5

Not possible to know whether a boy is a vigin or not, same as for a girl, the hymen can be broken in many ways before she first has sex. Riding a bike or horse, using tampons, hard exercise all can cause the hymen to be broken.

Answer 6

There is no way to know if a boy is a virgin or not.

Answer 7

Once you have sex for the first time, you're no longer a virgin. It's true about all virgins, regardless of gender. So beore you do it, be sure you're ready to lose it.

Answer 8

To lose your virginity means you have had sexual intercourse otherwise known as "sex"

For girls, ways to tell are a broken hymen, but I think that's it.

For a boy, there is no way to tell.

Answer 9

The doctor was most likely talking about a personality attribute. He would be wrong about that. Who ever told you there is a way to tell about girls was also mistaken.

Answer 10

well if ya ask me if a boy can jump right in,not be shy and know whats hes doing hes not a virgin