2006-07-22 03:16:56 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only you can be the judge of what's right for you. Whatever you do use a condom...Aids is on the rampage. As an older female I remember 2 occasions when I was young, that it was the best I ever had and those were my only first date experiences. Of course, the guys did not continue a relationship with me either. To be honest, men love conquest and love to chase. Use some will power and gain control in the situation!
2006-07-22 03:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by divagrande1 1 · 6⤊ 3⤋
I have...but I wouldn't recommend it, especially if you really like that person and would like to develop something with them that's more than just physical...
Too often, sex on a first date precludes there ever being a second date...however, if there are add'l dates, what's generally expected then? Sex of course...since you've already done it...the "getting to know each other" (outside of physical) tends to drastically slow down or screech to a halt. You may find after a few wks or so that you have nothing in common after all and aren't a good match, but were too busy having sex every time you got together to realize that you two aren't a good match at all...
Sex is fun...and sometimes the attraction is almost overwhelming...what starts out as a goodnight kiss or a little making out, can end up with clothes on the floor and naked bodies going at it...but think about what you may desire from that 'relationship' down the road...
It can be a bad idea to have sex on the first date....it's never a bad idea to wait a bit...
2006-07-22 03:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have sex with someone you are trusting them with your life and future. No condom is 100%, STDs are rampant and if you don't think murderers are charming watch A&E Cold Case Files a few good times. Also, if you're great in bed that's just another good reason for a lunatic to become obsessed and stalk you. It's best to have a few dates where you are very observant and watching for red flag behaviors.
2006-07-22 03:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jennicysm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never have sex on the first date .. u really dont know who u r with most men or women act there best on the first date. if i like this person then atleast 5 dates. u know take it a step at a time. that even gives u time to get to know him from himself and from ppl who know him
2006-07-22 03:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not have sex on the first date. AIDS, Herpes, Syphilis, and Gonorrhea may be on the date, too. I am not going to take a chance with my life to have sex with a man I barely know.
Sex is exciting, but it's more exciting and intense with someone you have developed something with.
2006-07-22 03:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mindee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far back as I remember, that was always when I had it.
I am now married and my wife and I did it on our first date.
Of course that run has only been since college.
In high school it took what seemed like dozens of dates to get there.
2006-07-22 03:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by Man with a plan. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if itt was with me........i wouldn ot have had sex on the very first meeting. First and above all i need to know the person deeply and need to be in love then only i will go for sex. I cant give my asset to anyone... For me my virginity has always been my asset.
But decisions and opinion can be varied.
depend on the person and approach towards life.
2006-07-22 03:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by Pearl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i would have sex on the first date but i respect a girls decision not to but i wouldnt just want it to be a 1 night thing, at the end of the day its your body and you decide what to do and what not to do and nobody should force you into anything!!
2006-07-22 03:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!I did have sex with my ex-boyfriend on the first weekend that we meet.It wasn't right but I did it anyways.Our relationship lasted almost a year in half.
2006-07-22 03:24:47 · answer #9 · answered by Sander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have. And even though I am a guy, it really isn't right. But, yeah, in college it happened several times, and in the long run each time the girl wasn't worth it.........So, save it for a rainy day.
2006-07-22 03:21:58 · answer #10 · answered by paul m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋