I used to ! but not fter my last realationship was Horrible ! wut do u think ?!!!
2006-07-22 03:00:36 · 46 answers · asked by xxxXAshXxxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love at first sight is not truly possible, because love, like any real, lasting relationship, takes time. You cannot love somene you don't know, and you cannot know someone you just met.
Your relationship turned out horrible because the first thing you did is jump in bed, which caused your emotions to overrule your logic. If you had taken the time to get to know this person BEFORE you got romantically involved, you never would have been romantically involved because you would have seen that the differences between you are so vast that they cannot be overcome; therefore, no relationship and no heartache.
Hope this helps.
2006-07-22 03:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I used to be a big believer of love at first sight too....however recently my opinion has changed slightly. I believe that there is LUST at first sight definitely, but I think love is something that has to grow. The only way it will grow is by knowing a person and spending time with them. Then love will grow if the situation is right. I know it sounds kinda corny!
2006-07-22 03:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, never have. I believe in attraction at first sight...and that attraction can grow into love once we get to know that person...but the idea that we can love (with our heart) someone we know absolutely nothing about, diminishes the idea of love to me.
Love takes time to grow...attraction and infatuation can occur much quicker...that's what people tend to feel, and later when they are together for a while and look back on the situation, they remember the strong attraction and call it "love" because that's what they feel at present...
Was it really love? I don't see how...no matter how many "fairy tale" romance stories I hear...
2006-07-22 03:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Love is a complicated emotion that takes time to develop and grow between 2 people. I do believe that you can have a very strong physical attraction to a person at "first sight" that sometimes can get confused with "love".
2006-07-22 03:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though philozophers say:Yes love at first sight exists but it is better to have a second glance too, i do believe in love at first sight.It happened to me years ago.I was on a train to Budapest..he in the same train with me.We stared at each other on the moment we got on the train..after half an hour he was looking for me in every compartment.He just sat down without a word and looked at me...then he told me his ticket is to Vienn..and when i arrived to Budapest he got off the train too.I told him he will lose his train i can manage with my luggage..His answer was..I do never want to make a step without you.We spent 10 years together in the sweetest love that could ever exist.Now he is in the skies and i am waiting for a train to take me there too
2006-07-22 03:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all "What is Love?" Second, "Does Love Exist? and Third, "Can you recognize it as love, lust, or infatuation?"
Anyway, I hope it does exist but Im starting to wonder. I even have a public access TV show on "Does Love Exist?" for nine seasons and I still have no answer on love. But anyway, I did have any expert on Love at First Sight and he did say it exist.
2006-07-22 03:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by MsBeautyLuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as 'LOVE' at first sight.
All there is ....is attraction at first sight.
Lust would be next.
And LOVE would be last. It takes awhile to actually, truely love someone. You have to spend TIME with them, see them in different circumstances, see them frustrated, angry, vunerable, affectionate, etc.
Don't equate initial attraction or lust for the real thing (love).
You were probably 'attracted' to your last boyfriend.... and as in all early relationships, all you saw initially was him on his best behavior. It was THAT behavior that you might have thought you 'loved'. But that only lasts a few days or weeks .... and then eventually their REAL personality emerges. He evidently turned out to be a real jerk....which is why you aren't with him anymore. (Good ridence)
My advice...... take your time. Attraction is great.... but it takes actual TIME for you to sort out the good and the bad and realize that you actually are "in love" with someone. It's lots of Trial and Error. Your soul mate IS out there. Until you find him, enjoy the hunt, but guard your heart ! Good luck!
2006-07-22 03:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by Primrose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who say who do never REALLY fell in love. You can feel a connection at first sight though. And lust at first sight, that definitely exists too.
2006-07-22 03:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by The Phantom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the others that said it's LUST at first sight. You fall for their looks and maybe charms but don't know them as a person so it can't be love.
2006-07-22 03:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by JustWant2B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure I do...I met my first boyfriend like that ..we were together for 6 years until I joined the Army...it was a wonderful relationship...we broke up because I enlisted in the U. S. Army
2006-07-22 03:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by celine8388 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋