2006-07-22 02:50:30 · 20 answers · asked by Beca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
beca, im not getting on a soap box or trying to act as if im holier then thou, but......... you said alter as if in refrence to church. and if you have it in a sanctuary of god wouldnt it be ideal to wait.. the two ideas in the same question clashed.... besides that the wedding night is somthing you both should remain with out sex for a good long period of time so it will be as explosive and lustfull as possible. good luck beca, you already know the answer its time to make the rest of you commit to it ... btw congrat and best wishes to the two of you if what your question was suggesting you are engaged....
2006-07-22 03:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by joe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it isnt right to sleep with your boyfriend b4 goin to the alter. you should wait until your married and its not a sin. now hopefully there should be some talk about marriage and its a good thing if he wants to wait too. plus is way more special when you make LOVE with your husband. trust! happy wishes
2006-07-22 02:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by 8 Months in counting mommy to be 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is a natrall human need. it all however depends on diffrent circumstances. like maturity level of both of you, and weather or not you and your partner are ready to take your relationship to the next level. when you are truly ready to make that comitment to someone your body, heart, and soul will let you know. by no means should you do this just to make your man happy, b/c if thats what he's asking you to do he is not right for you now and won't be right to marry, the decistion is yours choose wisely.
2006-07-22 03:06:14 · answer #3 · answered by marykycjane27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because God said not to It is not right to sleep with your partner before getting Married
2006-07-22 02:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by J-love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are asking the question it means that u should not be thinking about it. just wait if he loves u he can wait but of course. the realationship WILL change after u put out. TRUST ME. and not in a possitive way.
2006-07-22 02:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by zeke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds corny but true... isnt it better to wait until christmas for your gifts? no matter how much you want to peek, the anticipation and excitement of waiting is wayyyy better. God has a special reward for those who wait. He is not about killing fun, but more about offering the absolute best. Wait. I promise its worth it.
2006-07-22 02:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by turtles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can answer that for yourself, comrade. do you feel like it is? why? don't put out just to make him happy.
the best advice i can give you is this: if having sex is something you want to do, regardless of whether or not you're getting married, then go ahead. i try not to have sex unless the person i would have done it regardless of any other circumstances(whether or not we were dating, whether or not they will marry me, etc).
2006-07-22 02:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by entropicflux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if you think the time is right for you go for it but if your uneasy about it dont!
2006-07-22 02:55:05 · answer #8 · answered by cookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell!? Is all this people answering from the Mid-west bible belt??
Do what you think is important to you. Dont listen to these hillbillys!
2006-07-22 02:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by Caliraised 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but hooking up online with a stranger is ok.
2006-07-22 02:52:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋