Me and my guy, who is 28, have been dating for a little over 2 months. Things have been going great, but the last couple days have been a little weird. I just have a bad feeling about something. Not that he is seeing someone else, but that he doesn't want to continue on. There isn't really anything i can think of, of why he would want to stop talkin. I emailed him yesterday and texted, but no response back and we are supposed to get together tonight. I don't want to come off as a freak wondering why he isn't responding, but all i want is an answer and want to know where this is all going? how do i come about this? I hate the feeling that i have. And that is why i have been keeping my guard up. Cause i always seem to get my hopes up somehow. HELP!!!! what should i do?
2006-07-22 02:44:13 · 9 answers · asked by sweetpea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hell you should ask him why he not talking to you .
2006-07-22 02:49:35 · answer #1 · answered by MRZ.KAY KAY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I'm going through the same thing right now! But I've had other clues. I tried getting ahold of the guy but no response back. So I'm sitting back and waiting to see what he does. If I don't hear from him then so be it. But it is a pretty crappy way of ending things without telling the other person. I would try and get ahold of the guy if I were you, ask him what's going on. If you hear nothing then there's your answer. He could just be busy, if you get stood up tonight, there's an answer for you to. If you do I'm very sorry, I've been there and it sucks. Good luck
2006-07-22 09:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by Cathy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be blunt about it and ask him why is he acting so weird these last couple of days, also let him know that you are just worried about him. After you have said that then let it go and give him some time like a couple of weeks and see if he goes back to normal or he may tell you whats wrong then deal with it as it comes. You may never know what is or was bothering him, he may forget as well but as long as he returns to normal, then OK. Good luck. I am a guy by the way and this is how I would like to be approached.
2006-07-22 09:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all breath... now do u have any friends that are his friends too? if so get the friend to call just to chat get them to slip in a question of how u two r doing. keep in mind it may not be what you want to hear, but better to know the truth instead sitting at home all alone wondering. don't give up all hope he may suprise you yet. and hey don't be down on yourself, it can always be worse even when you think it couldn't.b
2006-07-22 09:53:12 · answer #4 · answered by marykycjane27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but he just don't want to be with you anymore. Guys like to run away instead of beeing responsible and face up the girl. I would say get over it. If he had some kind of good reason, he'll call back eventually.
2006-07-22 09:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to judge him so soon...but base from your story, its only been a couple of days so dont lose hope, if he dont come tonight, then thats the time you should confront him...you have the right to know the truth but be ready it could hurt...
2006-07-22 09:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by bea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe things with you and him are moving too fast or too slow. Talk to him about your feelings and get it all out on the table. Would you rather him break your heart now or later? First and far most, as much as you might care about his guy you have to be true to who you are first.
2006-07-22 09:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by mrpuffandstuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's busy. All you can do is talk to him about it.
2006-07-22 09:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has lost interest.
2006-07-22 10:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by SWEETCAITY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋