If a girl, without you ever asking her told you that she was a virgin with no sexual experience and afterwards you find out that she lied and she is not a virgin.
Would you still love, trust or marry her ?.
Ps: Asking this for my buddy Ruben whos deeply in love with his girlfriend and she kept on telling him that she was a virgin and 2 nights ago he had sex with her for the first time and found out that she was lying and now his heart broken and says he cant trust her ever or marry her.
2006-07-22 02:38:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all its not for Ruben...ok
2nd-if she lied to you ask her what is the reason she lied to you because she likes you so much and didnt wanted to lose you,
3rd-A desi guy or should i say a half desi guy cant be happy with anyone else beside a desi girl.
So quit fooling around in mexico and pack your bags and come back here so you can find a nice wife for you:-)
but still if you can see youself with her in next 10-15yrs go for it.just listein to your heart,but remember when you listein to your heart you end up getting hurt.
Learned that aswell last night.
2006-07-23 10:38:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your buddy Ruben and this girl should hav got to know one another better before having sex. There are so many reasons why people say things and you know - was he in love with her, or with her virginity and if he's so much into virginity before marriage then how come he slept with her before marriage. She may have just been testing him and now she will know that he's quite a supeficial person.
2006-07-22 02:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by vzhnri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would consider how he said he found out first. but if she really did lie turn it around say ruben told her he was a virgin and lied would he want forgivness its not like the lie really hurt deeply all lies hurt but can she be forgiven is his love for her enough for him to be mad be on edge but try to work through it
2006-07-22 02:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by skits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's lie about something this, apparently, important to him then what else is she willing to lie about. She's trying to be the girl she thinks he wants her to be rather than being who she is or just playing him. That is not a good sign for any relationship. Eventually, the real her ( and him) will come out and they may find they have absolutley nothing in common and no basis for a relationship.
2006-07-22 02:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be hard to trust someone after that. It's not good to start out a relationship with lies, because you have to keep covering up those lies with other lies and its just a vicious cycle. He should talk to her about it and find out why she lied, she may have a good reason. If he still wants to be with her, she'll have to earn his trust back.
2006-07-22 02:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a big lie. He should reconsider his situation. If she lied about that, what else might she lie about? He needs to weigh the odds of being with her and without her. But if he stays, know that she may lie again.
2006-07-22 02:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not good that she lied but he should ask her why she lied maybes she thought thats what he wanted to hear i dunno. Was he a virgin tho? How does he know she lied? He needs to have a chat with her and decide from there what he wants to do
2006-07-22 02:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by tweetypie88888 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he know why she lied? maybe she was raped. how does he know she lied, did she come clean with it? if he thinks she was too willling and new "tricks" maybe she ecuated herself before engaging in sex with him to be sure it was pleasurable for him. anyway, if my boyfriend lied about being avirgin i wouldnt let it keep me from bonding with him, there are far worse things she could lie about
2006-07-22 03:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by princessashley2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how did he find out she wasn't a virgin?
if she lied, he should kick her to the curb, she will lie again, and about bigger more important things!
2006-07-22 02:42:25 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for answering in a right manner the main thing require is that how he knows that c is not virgin.
2006-07-22 02:50:01 · answer #10 · answered by Prashant Pathak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋