What is the best way to please a women in bed?

Question

I don't mean to sound nasty or perverted but I just want to be able to please them good.

Answer 1

Enjoy being together, sex is not the only satisfaction for a woman. Whisper her romantic words as you do your act make her giggle.

Answer 2

Not everyone is the same, but there are a lot of myths out there about what women really like. Most are propagated by porn and passed on by very misinformed men. First of all, you have to communicate with your partner. Watch her responses to what you do, and tell her not to pretend it's ok if it isn't. Penetration is not the be-all and end-all of sex. Many, many women cannot have an orgasm by penetration, so get your hands involved and you lips. I happen to think that kissing for a long time is incredibly erotic. Not every woman might like that, but be a good kisser anyhow. Even if it's not her thing, it's a good way to get off on the wrong foot if the kissing is lousy. You need to ask her what she likes. My partner did right from the start, and I was really shy, but he gently coaxed it out of me. He doesn't miss a spot or a beat because he knows, and he doesn't do the same things all the time...not that I am ever bored of him touching me, anyhow. He also keeps communicating with me and asks me often to see if I've changed what I like. Also, having a big c**k is not what any woman worth spending your time on cares about...it's what you do with your hands, lips, tongue, and everything else that matters the most to real women. Also, be clean, please. I have heard many women (and men) complain that if hygiene is neglected, nothing can be done to please them. Good for you for asking!

Answer 3

Whisper sweet things in her ear, tell her that she's beautiful, kiss her all over in different ways (light, hard, rough, soft, romantic..light playful bites.. dirty.... every way)... find the spot and the combination that makes her squirm, lightly touch her in her most pleasurable places. Encourage her to touch herself in front of you so that you will know what she likes and you do the same for her... mimick her actions and add a lil something to it and there you go.. you have a pleased woman... o.. and if you dont get it right the first time... keep working at it, eventually, it will come!

Answer 4

Passion

Answer 5

Invent a toy that doubles as a cash machine and you will get a very pleased woman but, a very lonely man.

Answer 6

the best way is 2 kiss her ,rub her, and make her the focus of the event. we respond 2 being pleased by pleasing u back. always try something new and take ur time with her. u'll c.

Answer 7

Go to sleep so she can jump out the window. No Just Kidding!

Answer 8

get to know there desires, and there dislikes and wants romance them with poetry, flowers, little thoughts during the day through whatever communication that you have,example-thinking of you in bubbles, if you start the romance in the morning and during the day you will have good results in the evening,if she follows through,don't be so consumed with trying to please, just go with what you know, be positive, be a leader not a slave to trying to please

Answer 9

awe, well arent you a nice guy.. the biggest and the best "O" they've ever had! email me at [e-mail] and let me know how you got on or i could give you some tips that are a bit too XXX for this!:-)

Answer 10

First, and most importantly, show her respect, be polite, and be affectionate. Be honest. Be ready to talk about it.

Second, make sure she's comfortable and willing to have sex. No means no. If she says stop or no at any point, stop. Go beyond that point and it's rape.

OK, show her respect, be polite, and make sure she's comfortable and feels safe around you.

Alright, you're polite, respectful, and you're having fun.

You get alone and you start smooching, then what?

Women are not like guys. As men we see sex as an objective, a thing to accomplish. Load the troops, deploy the troops, roll over and go to sleep.

Women need you to pay attention to them. Herein we come back to the respect aspect of sex. If you respect the girl, you'll realize her body doesn't respond like yours.

You need to take the slow and steady approach your first few times with a woman.

Pay attention to her beauty. Tell her how good she looks. Tell her how soft and warm she feels. Pay attention to her whole body from head to toe.

Start with kissing, then work your way to massaging her back, shoulders, and then work on her legs. Don't go for her honey pot right off the bat. Her special garden is your last target.

Think of making love to a woman like writing a good story. You work your way to the climax steadily.

If she's still into you at this point, and she's totally relaxed, you'll be able to work toward making love.

Don't treat any part of her body like a sponge. She's a woman, not a unicellular organism.

Gently brush your hands across the sides of her breasts. If she reacts like she doesn't want you to touch them. She's not in the mood to go any further. If she doesn't react, keep massaging the sides of her torso and brush your hands across the sides of the breasts.

Still no reaction, or a positive reaction, or she grabs your hands and puts them on her breasts, then gently massage them.

At this point, you're 90% of the way home.

Slowly work your way to her butt, massage it, and the glide your hands across her body. It's time to go for her honey pot.

Slowly glide your hand toward her special garden. If she doesn't react, try to stop you, and if she's damp down there, Touchdown!! The eagle has landed.

Again, don't be grabby. Don't be rough. Just touch and then glide your hand away.

Now What?

Respect. Remember respect.

Take your time. Engage in foreplay. The more time you take, the happier she'll be, and the happier you'll be.

Study up on this process. (The clitoris is key. Treat it right. You'll be glad you did.)

If you get good at foreplay, everything else will fall into place accordingly.

In time, the amount of time you'll have to spend will decrease, she'll get in the mood quicker because she trusts you and hopefully loves you.

Just remember. Be respectful. Be attentive. Take your time. Pay attention to her needs first, then you'll be taken care of. (And how!!)

Now, after you've done your deed, DO NOT fall asleep. Pay attention to her. Talk with her. Tell her how amazing she was. This is called Afterplay. It's more important than foreplay in some ways because it'll set the stage for your next encounter.

That all being said:
Practice safe sex. You don't want a disease and neither does she. You don't want an unwanted baby and neither does she. Take care of it yourself. Don't rely on the woman to take care of condoms, the pill, or anything else. You are responsible for your choices and actions. You're responsible for anything that happens between you and the woman. Safe sex is way of showing self respect, and showing respect for any woman you want to be with.

The only 100% effective form of birth control is not to engage in intercourse.

I'd highly recommend not engaging in casual sex because it's not emotionally or spiritually fulfilling. Don't have sex with a woman unless you are planning on having a long-term relationship or getting married to her. Don't have sex if you are not prepared to take care of a baby. Don't! Paying child support is not being a father. Every kid deserves a father. That's a whole different animal.

If you're not ready to settle down and raise a family, or you're ready to help a woman raise a child, you're not ready to have sex.

Ignore anything you've seen in a porno. That's not real sex, and real women don't respond like porn stars. Also, most women are not built like porn stars. As such, many women will feel inadequate about her looks. Fortunately, 60-80% of women fall into the attractive range. Remember to be respectful about any woman your with, and tell her what you think is beautiful about her.

If you're under 18, I recommend you wait until you're done with high school before unleashing your trouser monster.

If your not sure what to do, talk to someone older than you about what to do.

Hope that helps.

Be smart. Be safe. Be respectful. Have fun.