I dont see a problem
2006-07-22 02:20:48 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Age is a JUST a number, it doesnt tell you anything about the person, what they do or who they are. A 21yr old sleeping with a 50yr old shouldnt matter.And a 21yr old sleeping with a 38yr old isnt bad at all, not one tiny bit!!
I hope my opinion helped!!
2006-07-22 02:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Legally no, and I suppose if the two love each other there is no problem. But, if you are the younger of the two, be careful. I am 46, and know many guys my age who have done the same thing not so much because they genuinely loved the girl, but they were desperately trying to recapture the rowdy days of their youth. If this guy is married, or has just come off a divorce, it is a safe bet that you are nothing more then a ego pill for him. Even though there is a nine year age difference between my wife and I, I was 40 and she was 32 when we got married, with neither having just gotten burned in a past relationship. But 17 years is a long time, and you are in the prime of your sexual performance to satisify.
2006-07-22 02:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the 38 yr is a mother and the 21 yr old is her child then every thing is far better than OK.
2006-07-22 02:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by Javed Miandad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't see why not, you are both of legal age. there is a 17 year difference in age and that is a pretty big gap, not for sex, but maybe for any conversation, but the question was is it okay to sleep with a 21 year old, so my answer would be yes.
2006-07-22 02:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A well experienced 38 and the "just learned" 21 should make an interesting pair..... Poor 21 year old!!!!!!!
2006-07-22 02:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both legal- yes it's ok. However, a long lasting relationship - marriage down the road can be difficult as you both age differently. I would never judge that situation though -- as love is love. Some may be able to handle it well and others may not. Life is a gamble -- sometimes you win and sometimes you lose. You may win afterall though.
2006-07-22 02:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your both legal and adults so there is no issue with that.
As for sex yes, you can sleep with anyone legal, does this 21 year old know it is just for sex tho? when you do go with someone so much younger they do sometimes develope 'feelings' for the other one cause they are young, they arnt use to '1 nighters' 'flings' 'being used' etc..... and he might get really heart broken so please do talk about this....and tell him it will only be sex set him straight first.
2006-07-22 02:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by Queenbee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont either,as long as the 38 year old isnot a user,and the 21 as a very mature mind,i wish u both luck,and have fun live life n injoy.
2006-07-22 02:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by kathy r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone's of legal age and old enough to know what they're doing so as long as it's consensual I really don't see a problem either! Course, I'm 34 and really like younger guys, so maybe my opinions a little biased! They're just so yummy though! lol...
2006-07-22 02:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no problem here, when i was 36 met , slept with and married a 20 yr old been together 17 years.
2006-07-22 02:25:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋