I really enjoy having cyber sex especally through email....but should i be ashamed?
2006-07-22 01:38:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no its not, i think in a sex obsessed world which we live in today, its good to be able to have different means of getting your rocks off.
I personally feel that if there wasnt cyber sex, porn etc, there would be a lot more rape victims etc out there because there wouldnt be anything else for these people to vent it on, im not saying everyone who looks at porn/cyber sex is a pervert and a possible rapist, but there could be lotsof people controlling this by using cyber sex/porn.
i hope this does not upset anyone. it is not meant to offend.
2006-07-22 01:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mappy~Jazz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have had cyber sex with this woman before and for a little while it was okay, But only real love real sex can satisfy the loneliness I feel deep inside my soul.
Should you feel ashamed not but you need real love not just a fantasy.
2006-07-22 02:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Clean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that there's any shame in it as long as ur sure u r not speaking to a minor. Otherwise, it's all about fantasy. U have a good time, there r no commitments, no chance of catching or spreading disease, certainly no unwanted pregnancies. Just as long as ur able to have real one on one healthy relationships and don't allow cyber sex to dominate or replace real human contact; I say go for it.
2006-07-22 01:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not, it's just an extension of expressing your sexuality ...... and email is still a relatively new form of communication ( over the last ten years ) so I guess people are still getting used to that form of communicating!
My only reservations with your question are that (1) only adults are involved and (2) that if you don't know the other party, you keep it that way! Safe sex, in any way, is keeping you safe as well ...... have fun!
2006-07-22 01:46:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is no need to be ashamed. Alot of people have cyber sex. Its kinda like reading erotica, except your helping to create the story. I think reading erotica is a turn on for me, I love reading it...and thats defiently not anything to be ashamed of. So go ahead and have cyber sex...nothing to be ashamed of, enjoy yourself!!...
2006-07-22 01:41:47 · answer #5 · answered by LovableLibra84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,that is your preference,but don't just be an exhibitionist that will ruins others day!Be decent and overcome your pleasure in discreet! As long as you are happy and enjoying for what you are doing there are no thing to ashame about because that is your choice of pleasure away from disease and physical contact(It seems like you are just masturbating)and you did not hurt anybody! Be cool!
2006-07-22 01:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by tutax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong, no. I think it's a good way to relieve tensions and anxieties, for both people involved. Both must be of age, and willing, but it's a safe way to enjoy another person and no harm is done to either. You should never be ashamed of being human and having needs, even sexual needs.
2006-07-22 01:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if it bothers you then don't do it...but on the plus side you won't catch any stds.. but you might get a few critical answers with a question like that on here, remember there are some real nitwits that surf these waters.....
2006-07-22 01:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by Dirtydog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be carefull how you do it and maybe just to be safe you can use a fake name when you cyber with strangers (possibly middle-aged perverts) so they can't find out your real name info...etc.
2006-07-22 06:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are both consenting adults, enjoy yourself! You aren't doing anything tons of people all over the world are doing right now.
2006-07-22 01:43:56 · answer #10 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋