plz tell me
2006-07-22 01:31:53 · 20 answers · asked by kiss2envy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it has a reason then its not love
love never has a reason
2006-07-22 02:27:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you can't find the words that's not unusual, just smile and kiss him. Writers have written millions of words about love and never really captured the feeling, the idea yes but not the feeling. Words are useless when it comes to describing love, so tell him you love him and just don't have the words to express why or how. I hope he is not so insecure that he will not accept this and if he is you have your work cut out for you.
2006-07-22 08:37:21 · answer #2 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what do you love about him? Maybe that's an easier way of looking at it. When you look at the little pieces, you find they make up the whole.
For example, here are some of the things I love about my husband:
He has big muscled forearms, like Popeye.
He has the best laugh, and his eyes get all squinty and squidgy when he laughs.
His hands are always warm.
He is a big man, but when he sleeps, he looks like the world's biggest 10 year old.
He makes the weirdest dishes out of odds and ends he finds in the cupboards--I won't eat it, but it is interesting to look at, and he thinks it's yummy.
He treats me like the rarest jewel that's ever graced this planet.
He scares the crap out of most adults, but little kids and animals love him immediately.
He brings funny treats home for me when he sees odd stuff, like gummi pizzas and hamburgers, or little plastic toys, or weird squishy plastic stuff, like those little things you flip and they stick to mirrors.
Those are just some of the things I love about my husband. I could just tell him I love him because I said "yes" when he asked me to marry him, or because we wear matching rings, or because we have shared a bed for a long time, but the truth is those things aren't the reason why I love him; they are byproducts of it. It's all the little things that he does, or says, or is, that add up to the man I adore.
If your love for your man is too big to explain, start looking at the little things, and tell him about those. A lot of people say "I love you" today about as casually as they shake hands. I am not saying that you are that way, just saying that it has become tremendously common and casual. But when someone tells you that one of the things they love about you is that you snort when you laugh, you know they really do love you :)
2006-07-22 08:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Bronwen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u cant tell him why u love him u got a problem. u should know why u love him. wether if he makes u happy when sad or just feels good to be with him. how he is romatic whatever he does that makes u love him. say what u feel. if a guy ask u that and gets a i dont know thats sad. u should know and im sure he can list why he likes u. so just tell him what he does to make u happy that most likely is love.good luck
2006-07-22 08:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look in your heart for the answer to this one. What things make you cheese, like uncontrollable smile. What makes you want to be near him when hes not there, and what makes you never want to be apart when he is. Only you can say why you fell in love and why you continue to be.
2006-07-22 08:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by sweetiepie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about him makes your heart flutter? Is it his eyes, his personality, his voice? What is the first thing that comes to mind when you think of him? If you just can't think of something on your own, tell him, "It's the whole package. I love everything about you."
2006-07-22 08:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can say "Love is kind of feeling" not necessary to have a reason why. Also, if you love him with reasons or conditions, what if these reasons or conditions changed?
2006-07-22 08:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you love him because he is who he is. No words can express why you love a person...It's the heart that says it...not the brain...
2006-07-22 08:36:43 · answer #8 · answered by olive oyl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know the reason better than anybody else in this big "family". it maybe of his character, gentleness, consideration, etc. So you just tell him why you love him. I am sure that you can do it.
2006-07-22 08:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think love is when 2 souls are in harmony and finds comfort within.
2006-07-22 08:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by skwsith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say u love him with all your heart .tell him u love him for all he is
2006-07-22 08:36:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋