he just shouts at me do do things for him.
2006-07-22 01:17:57 · 20 answers · asked by naby.caby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing worse than a man with no manners
2006-07-22 01:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not asking you a favour..he's ordering you around. If you do it, you're taking orders, and teaching him it's okay to treat you with absolutely no respect.
Now, if he's bleeding profusely or ir trapped under part of the roof and screams at you to call an ambulance, that's different...or if it's something urgent that he needs.
You teach people how you want to be treated by whether or not you respond in the way they want. And by how you treat them. You may never get a "thank you", but you should get a "please".
2006-07-22 01:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! We all have a duty to each other. Its about respect, and this does not sound respectful. You have a right to be treated with love and care. If you are hurt emotionally it is as bad as physically. No one has the right to do this. You sound like a sweet person who is kind and helps him. You also sound like you would not do this to him. When he is calm, and being nice, you two need to make a plan about how things will be. This plan will not include any abusive behaviour. You will know then whether he can stick to the plan, or whether he is unable, or loses control. If this is the case, please, encourage him to get help, he needs it, and you too, this behaviour is not ok. I wish you well.
2006-07-22 01:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by silentium aqualis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the lazy B*stard to get off his a*se and take care of his own needs... Then get some respect for yourself & tell him to Fcuk off!!
If you're gonna put up with being treated like that, then you're getting what you deserve. If you don't want to be a doormat.. get up off the floor!!!!
2006-07-22 01:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by Nem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
saying please is just a way of showing that the individual have manners.sometimes my friends don't say please to me .but i don't take it as a sign of disrespect.people can get so use to u that they forget their manner. it all depends on how the person approaches me and how they talk to me . if he shouts at u . it means he is in control of your situation .try when talking to him say please all the time .and when he is asking 4 something without saying plz tend to ignore him 4 awhile.pretend u didn't hear.then ask him to repeat himself
2006-07-22 01:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's rude then...of course he should say please if he wanted u to do him a favor...learn him to respect u and not tot take things for granted coz in the future he'll do something worse! set him some conditions and rules which he should follow obediently!! don't let him consider u as a sucker coz he will take advantage of your flexibility in the future! i hope i have helped!
2006-07-22 01:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do anything at all if he shouted at me......... your not a dog and you should be treated with dignity and respect. Heshould be treating you like a queen....... why do you let him treat you like this??????
2006-07-22 01:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by Coodles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you would appreciate being treated with the respect and kindness that you give him!!...see what happens if he gets mad maybe you should find a new man!!....either that or get used to being treated like crap, it's up to you!!
2006-07-22 01:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by CRYSTAL S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
acc to me thats not love. he shold understand that u also have self respect and if u have it u should convey it to him. once its ok but not always that not the rule of love.
2006-07-22 01:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by prem d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need a man like me
2006-07-22 01:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋