How would you react if you had a male friend (just a friend) and you found out either A. He is interested in going to a brothel or has been to one......keep in mind y'all aren't dating and theres no hint its gonna happen how would u react or think of him?
2006-07-21 23:58:53 · 16 answers · asked by Darkness 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
It's his life, what do I care... I actually have some friends that even discuss going in front of me because they know I wouldn't preach on them... I trust them to be smart enough and know what they're doing...
2006-07-22 00:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by Jasna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem? At least he is showing that he can be honest and that he trusts you. You should be flattered that your friend feels so secure in your friendship that he could tell you these things. I think the majority of men have been to, or have wanted to go to, or would like to go to a brothel ... it's like having a 3-sum ... guys just want it, although many of us women will never understand why. Don't let it affect your friendship.
2006-07-22 11:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by ♪ Nickels ♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with what many of the other folks said here, he may be lonely and need some affection. ALL MEN NEED AFFECTION and that's a reality. Plus it is his life. A high class escort in a well established brothel would more than likely be more safe to fool around with than a street hooker.
It would seem that your concerns should only go so far.
If he isn't your boyfriend or your husband than why would you be so concerned about how, where or whom he chooses to seek affection and sex from? It's not like you are sleeping with him yourself and you would be exposed to affected by anything. So let him enjoy himself.
2006-07-22 09:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be shocked but I think you should let him do what he wants. I mean, I'd rather see a friend go to a place like that than see him in the headlines as a rapist.
2006-07-22 07:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by Clauds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will bel curious and ask him why he wants to go, or what made him go there. I won't be judgmental, maybe caution him and talk to him about the dots and crosses. . . I'll respect his decision though. . .
2006-07-22 07:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by mich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok he doesnt want romantic attachments it meaningless sex also everyone thinks health wise thats not a good idea well let me tell you a high paid call girl is most likley to be cleaner then your streetwalker they use protection,are not going to hurt anybody he is human he has needs i think its ok.
2006-07-22 07:07:25 · answer #6 · answered by nicole l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it's not the best thing ever. it's better to think that yr friends can sleep with someone without paying. go to Amsterdam, you 'll love it.
2006-07-22 07:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by disco ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't worry, I'm a guy and I think most guys would at one point be curious to visit one, they probably wouldn't like it and think its nasty. I might be wrong tho
2006-07-22 07:02:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go. if he enjoys it...cool. if not then you won't have to worry about it again. i just wouldn't plan on sleeping with him or doing anything sexual with him (ever) . dirty brothel hoes. lol
2006-07-22 07:01:37 · answer #9 · answered by cannabisdrivethru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what, maybe he is lonely. Look at it from his point of view, you are supposed to be his friend and you are not there to judge him on his actions!!
2006-07-22 07:03:03 · answer #10 · answered by chrisnewcars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋