Ladies what would you do if you found out that your man (either through him or otherwise)...has been to a brothel somewhere...in Amsterdam or Nevada or somewhere and had some pleasure with a prostitute some time before both of you met? Keep in mind I said this happend before both of you met...and he was also single at the time he did this...what would you ladies do?
2006-07-21 23:17:54 · 19 answers · asked by Darkness 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
...also what would you think of him afterwards?
2006-07-21 23:20:17 · update #1
Nothing... it was before we met.
2006-07-21 23:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I probably wouldn't do much of anything. Prostitution isn't so horrible...at least, it's not like murdering someone. We've been together almost 4 years now, so I don't see why I should dwell on something that happened a long time ago.
2006-07-22 06:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell him that before we got intimate he had to go see a doctor and get checked for AIDS and STDs... AND give me the doctor's report. 'Nuff said!
As for the morality of it all... hey, it's world's oldest profession for a reason. I don't think you should judge him. This has nothing to do with you except a possible health risk. Get that checked. If he asks you to do the same, you should... he has a right to know that you're "clean", too. Besides, if you're willing and you don't have HIS history... he won't be able to find an excuse to not get tested.
Stacy
2006-07-22 07:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by Stacie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be happy if he was the one who told me, there is a lovely level of honesty in that.
If it was in a proper brothel too, at least you know safe sex was practiced.
I'd be upset if he had gone to one of the young junkies walking the streets.
Still ask him how much interest he still has in sex with prostitutes.
2006-07-22 06:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by baroness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing... He was probably just having a laugh, probably been drunk, I can't see how that could be a problem, especially if it was before you met... Just check if he had used protection, and still take him to see the doctor, you have the right to know what you're getting yourself into...
2006-07-22 06:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jasna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get myself checked out for STD. Then a long talk with him to be sure that in the future you are the only woman he is sleeping with.
2006-07-22 08:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by Classy Granny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He would be tested for everything known to man, as would I. Then, if nothing turns up, we are fine, because it happened before I was around.
2006-07-22 10:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by emmadropit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd have him get tested for STD's. If he had something I'd definitely make sure it was treated (I'm pretty sure everything's curable byt HIV and AIDS) and use condoms all the time.
2006-07-22 06:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would smack him right in the face...
Second I would take him to the health department to get checked for diseases...
Third if everything came out alright I would put it behind me (It's the past)...
Forth I would love him!!!
2006-07-22 06:20:28 · answer #9 · answered by *~Princess~* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have no problem with it, cuz it was before we met. Everyone has a past when you meet them.
2006-07-22 06:21:49 · answer #10 · answered by Texas_at_its_best 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd get a STD test quicker than ****! and if all was well...i'd just shurg it off....or maybe..i'd make him tip me afterwards from then on out hahahaha
2006-07-22 06:19:28 · answer #11 · answered by Hooligan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋