My best friend was diagnosed with stage 4 in Jan 2004 by Aug 2005 she lost that battle.
2006-07-21 22:23:42 · 12 answers · asked by ejt 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
No.. almost a year later (her death being 08/25/2005) I live in her house now and nothing.. I feel like I'm missing something?!
2006-07-21 22:45:15 · update #1
My mom died a few years ago.. and I know exactly what you mean by 'and.. nothing". I searched her house several times for SOMETHING to comfort me. What I finally found was an old camping list she had written. Her handwriting... Whoa...A real, solid piece of Mom !!
I am a mom of three kids. I have a boyfriend, 3 siblings and a father living. I would write them all LONG letters.. probably more like journals.. tellng them everything I wanted each one to know about me, about what I wish for them, advice for my children, how much I loved and appreciated them, and making any amends, and LOADS of "you make me think of...." and "I remember..." stuff. I would also give my children separate envelopes with letters to open on future special occasions, so they feel that I am there with them.
:-)
2006-07-22 11:00:50 · answer #1 · answered by WhatAreYouTalkingAbout? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your best friend. I lost one several years ago. We talked about after death. My sister had died some time earlier and we spoke of her contacting me to let me know she made it to Heaven. She did. My best friend told me she would be my Guardian Angel, because so many bad things happen to me. She was, three near disasters happened after she died, I am still alive. Maybe I would leave a note or a package, but I would talk to them before I died.
2006-07-21 22:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by alabamalady813 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have stage 4 and am married with 2 young children. I'm writing everything down..all the funny things they've said, have filled out their baby books and yes, I will write a letter for them, especially for their 21st & wedding.
2006-07-21 22:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by lou_noul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 12:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in stage 4 metastatic melanoma cancer and have been working on notes for everyone. Its theraputic and I would like to think will bring them some comfort when I'm gone.
2006-07-22 06:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by Fritzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom had cancer and went through chemo and radiation well a year later the cancer took over she passed away in March and I found a letter she wrote to me and one for my brother about how much she loved us and how proud of us she was.I cried and my brother cried but I am glad she did that.
2006-07-22 14:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by sashaaspen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would..
Did your best friend leave any note for u before she left?
The note will remain a lifetime memory for the receipient.
2006-07-21 22:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure would. i would tell them that i loved them. and that not to be sad for me. They should rather remember the good times and be happy. have a beer for me.
Im sorry about you losing your friend. It can be a hard time.
2006-07-21 22:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by Joel E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you will be OK...don't know what to say beyond that, but that I feel for you, and the family...best wishes
2006-07-21 22:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definitely...
Would thank them for loving me and how much i ve loved them and how much more meaningful it would be for me, to see them, continue living their live to the fullest and happily, when i'm gone.
2006-07-21 22:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by Prudence 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋