I have been dating this guy for 12 years and he has cheated on me multiple times but i still took him back. Now i found out that he was still messing with both of the girls that he cheated on me with and even living with one of them. He said he's sorry and has called me a few times but he still lives with her. He wanted to meet with me today to explain himself and he did not even bother to call?? How can someone say they love you and be so cruel. I think the hardest part is that he chose to live with her rather than me, because she lets him live there rent free and smoke in her house at my house he has to smoke outside and living was not an option yet since he does not want to really grow up and pay any bills. Maybe because he can get away with certain things with her that he can't with me but if you love someone wouldn't you do what you can to be with them???? I don't want him back because i've had enough but I want him to suffer because he lost me and not just keep on living with her
2006-07-21 21:57:47 · 12 answers · asked by chocolatechick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The BIG question is WHY the heck have you stayed with him.
What has happened to your past to make you feel it is ok to be treated like that?
The two of you might love each other forever. But, becasue he can't keep his zipper up, he is NOT long term relationship material.
Time for you to cut the cord to this cheater. And what kind of man moves in with a lady because she doesn't make him pay rent. The man is a long time moocher.
He is probablyl very loveable and charming when he asks for your forgivness. But.......past behavior is a predictor of future behavior.
You sound like a good woman. You definatly deserve better in life.
There are actually men in this world who suport the household and are faithful for a lifetime.
Get new locks. Be strong, don't let him worm his way back in to your life.
2006-07-21 22:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop it, she just a child.. Avoid her, she doesn't know what shes saying... accepting her means you are using her, theres 10 year difference between her and you.... I dont know whether you can marry her, if there is the age diff is less, Say that "love is too early for her and ask her to continue her studies.." If you two can marry means you have to wait untill she finishes her coll, that be around 10 years from now... if you truly love her and she also feels the same way as she already saying the same now, then waiting is the only option fro you both.. Untill then dont view her like girfriend sort of thing..
2016-03-27 02:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by Chelsea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on to bigger and better. You obviously put up with a lot for a while. It hurts but you deserve better. Believe me he is suffering. Now you just need to concentrate on yourself and be happy. He is lucky to have had you so now it's your turn to have a partner that shows you love, honor, respect and commitment. Good luck.
2006-07-21 22:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you even have to ask him to go back to you.. go and look for a rich guy in wealthymen.com and indulge yourself in the luxury that the new guy could give you.. then show up with the wx looking all happy! that's a sweet sweet thing!
2006-07-21 22:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by steller23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just shitty. Love is about honesty and faithfulness. Hope you find someone who's good to you. Good luck in life.
2006-07-21 22:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl he's not even worth the time it took you to write this paragraph forget him totally he'll get his one way or the other
2006-07-21 22:04:03 · answer #6 · answered by loveme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch the loser
and if you really wanna bust his balls, tell him you gave him an STD.
His live-in girlfriend will freak!
2006-07-21 22:07:23 · answer #7 · answered by Chris C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a real loser ( and user) to me, get rid of him fast!
2006-07-21 22:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by Courage 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress to impress make him see what he is missing show respect and act like you don't care and he will lose it
2006-07-21 22:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by grant_lilmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, you should to let him alone and let him to think what he should to do.maybe its better..
2006-07-21 22:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by griffinswinsky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋