this person is very close yo me (family-wise) ,but am not talking to her recently for a very good reason...
2006-07-21 21:53:17 · 12 answers · asked by seaba 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you haven't got a lot of options due to the fact families can be difficult all i can advise you to do is be there for your family member when things do get difficult for them because if you interfere you could end up being in the wrong and risk your family branding you a bad apple for breaking up a soon to be marriage
2006-07-21 22:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to ask her indirectly, intlegently, that what is their problem and if she tells the problem then to advise her very politely, sincerely. If there is some fault in husband, then also advise the husband very tactfully, ( otherwise the things can turn more dangerous instead of good, if the talks are not controlled tactfully)
In case she not respondes, and u feel her intensions are not good, then just go to help out her husband, just intimate him about what is going to happen with him. And leave all up to God. Now a days u cant help any one, only u will be the wrong persons after few days. They will be all right, just one night will patch up their relations.
2006-07-22 05:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by sheen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the right thing would be to tell the husband that her wife is up to something not good!!
but there is the risk of losing ur relationship with this relative of yours.. are you willing to do the right thing no matter what the cost is?
well if your answer to that question is yes than go for it!! and if you do not want to lose the relationship with ur close relative than just ignore everything and mind your own business..
its your call do you prefer to be the good relative or do what needs to be done!
2006-07-22 05:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by Pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide where your ultimate loyalty lies. If she has cheated on him, let it go. That's between them. If she has done something unforgivable that will ultimately affect her husband then tell him what it is.
If you are not going to forgive her for what she has done, then you don't have to worry about her not talking to you for telling. On the other hand make sure you aren't doing something that you will later regret. Think of the morals of your actions and remember that 2 wrongs don't make a right.
2006-07-22 05:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you may have a million great reasons to rock her whole world,---It's still wrong.
Playing God with other people's lives and hearts will only cause more harm than good, and probably end up burning you in the process.
Hold your tongue this time.
2006-07-22 05:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you pretend not to know anything. Husband are alsways husband to your close relative. They will batch up within minutes. And you will branded as a bad person, so is not worth it.
2006-07-22 05:00:19 · answer #6 · answered by simple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing . don't get involved as you wont help matters but will probably make it worse as one or the other will accuse you of taking sides or will say how long have you known etc etc. just let them get on with it. if its going to happen anyway whats the point of stepping in. leave them alone and just be there for who ever afterwards if they come to you for a shoulder to cry on.
2006-07-22 06:53:38 · answer #7 · answered by 90210 aka Hummer Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it.... Unless it's life or death the news now or later will come eventually and you don't want to be the source of his pain. It's their relationship...
2006-07-22 05:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by ~Me~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put whatever it ir behind you & pretend everything is fine.
If you say anything you will end up being the bad guy & it will make it worse.
Trust me.
2006-07-22 07:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sever ties with her.
2006-07-22 05:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋