He treated me wrong with no respect, and after almost a year, I knew I had to end things. Then why am I missing him so much?
2006-07-21 21:33:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like a jerk to me, but guys deal with emotions differently than we do. I dated a guy for over 4 years, who constantly lied and cheated. I was always breaking up with him. Hed shrug it off as no big deal, and go out and party or date other people, and I'd be the one to sit home and cry. Trust me, dont go back. You will be so glad when you are finally over it. A year relationship is a long time, especially if your young. Surround yourself with people who make you happy. This may sound dumb, but do you like the show FRIENDS? That show helped me through alot of hard times. Hon, I feel your pain. If ya need to talk email me...us girls gotta stick together!
2006-07-21 21:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you did the right thing, never put up with a guy that doesn't respect you. They will never love you like you love them.
And it's normal to be hurting. You'll probably will feel like a fool too, later on, because you put with it for so long.
But for now, while you are hurting, try and go out and meet new people and reassure yourself you did the right thing. Remember the saying: Time heals all wounds? It is very true!
2006-07-22 04:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by kazoo1991 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just answered a question almost like this and my answer seems to fit yours as well. I hope you don't mind me copying it here for you.
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Love… that is a difficult question. I was in love once with a man who I knew was a womanizer. I knew he was using me, but couldn't seem to help myself. In the end, he did exactly what such people do. He slept with my roommate. After I left him, I discovered that the times he had been away on ‘business,’ he was seeing yet another girl! She was about 6 months pregnant! So at one point, he had three of us dangling.
After we broke up, I was crushed and gained countless pounds. I was depressed for well over a year… But in time, very gradually, my heart began to heal. It felt like forever and I thought I would never love again. But time heals all wounds, they say. I think it is true. Do little things for yourself, things that make you happy, like take in a movie or go white water rafting. I remember when I first started smiling, it was a fake smile. No real emotion behind it, like a mannequin. When I laughed at jokes, the sound was hollow, empty, and I felt numb. But with time, joy filled my smiles again, and laughter once more entered my heart.
Sweetheart, a broken heart takes time to heal. That’s the truth. I will pray for you so that you can heal soon. Good luck, Love. My heart and prayers are with you.
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I hope it helps some, and I will pray for you tonight too! Good luck, Love.
2006-07-22 04:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by EUDORA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any loss in your life creates grief, this is normal, he was part of your life for nearly a year. You will miss him until someone or something else fills the gap this guy has left.
If he treated you badly do not be tempted to go back.
2006-07-22 04:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just the fear of being alone now. But look at it this way wouldn't you want to be happy by yourself rather than miserable with someone who treats you bad?? I would because that way you can always guarantee your own happiness and respect.
2006-07-22 04:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by chocolatechick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where there is an ending then there is another beginning of life.You love him so you felt hurt.Thats y. And still life has to moved on.Be strong gal.Gd luck.
2006-07-22 04:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens all the time, but u can't go back if he treated u bad, u have to move on and remind yourself y u left him in the first place.
2006-07-22 04:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's because you are a very nice girl, and because you deserve a better man, the one who can not get hurt is the one who can never get in love, you will find the right man someday.
2006-07-22 04:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by yaser h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you need to get over it. tjink about the bad times not the good and you will start to love less and less *(him)
2006-07-22 04:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by xxx P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're too sensible. It's natural
2006-07-22 04:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by val 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋