My dillema is the following:I love this girl so much but shes got a bf and i doubt she will ever look at me *sighs*...So should i remain loyal to her or should i date other girls and hope that in the end maybe she will come around.What in God's name will i do...
2006-07-21 21:20:43 · 17 answers · asked by Lone Silver Wolf 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't wait around for something that may never happen. Find a girl who's unattached. Even if your current lady love broke up with her boyfriend, there's no guarantee she'd go out with you.
2006-07-21 21:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by nightevisions 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough question.
She has a boyfriend- don't even think about her- you don't want some one to ever cheat on you and what goes around comes around.
Instead of suddenly turning around and dating a bunch of girls- hang out with some friends. Think about what you want in life and love and a relationship.
Figure out what it is you like about her and realize that maybe it's her qualities you appreciate. Sometimes a strong and good friendship is more important than getting a girl who is already in a happy relationship.
How would you feel if the situation was reversed?
However, if you know for a fact the relationship is not good then you could always give her a hint about your feelings and then see what happens- but then don't be surprised if she tells her boyfriend and he gets upset and don't get too mad if she decides it's best not to hang out with you or if she avoids you for a while.
Watch- Love actually....
Hitch...
Houseboat....
The Closer You Get...
If you can find it- Dil Chata Hai
40 year old Virgin - has some good points in the end there
Buying the Cow - silly but good points
40 days - Josh Hartnet - also some nice points....
to name a few movies to start with...
Otherwise focus your energy on something productive- like a hobbie. And be proactive not negative...
things only change or happen if you try to make them change or happen and if they don't then try something else.
Be nice..
If a girl came up to you and she felt for you the way you feel for this girl how would you feel? How would you handle it? What would you think?
IF you are pretty sure she's the one either wait or admit how you feel.
The sooner you find out the better for you. And if she doen't like you back do go on a negative binder- have your feelings, recover and realize that if not her then you are now one step closer to "the one"... :)
Best of luck.
2006-07-22 04:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have patients, go out and enjoy yourself, date other girls. Theres no point staying loyal to someone if they don't even know you exist. In the future who knows what might happen. Besides how do you know you are in love with her, you don't even really no her, could be that you lust for her, yes!
2006-07-22 04:33:59 · answer #3 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look 4 other gurls an get over her if she truly luvs her bf then it doesnt look like shes gonna get @ u ne times soon so look 4 sum1 else there are great gurls all round u be on da look out 4 em
2006-07-22 04:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by numba_1_babii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the girl out on a date, if she says no then move on. You will have at least tried.
2006-07-22 04:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her, keep yourself available. Let her know you like her. You may already have her attention but she is fighting with herself to stay loyal to her bf.
2006-07-22 04:28:33 · answer #6 · answered by Answer4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you waiting on?Just more time to pass you by!Or a rock to hit you in the head?Move on because you arent getting this girl.Why would you even want her when she dont want you?Think about that one!!
2006-07-22 04:24:56 · answer #7 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the girl. Give your heart to someone who will pay attention to you and want to know you. Stop wasting your time on someone who will never want you.
2006-07-22 04:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend has this problem except my friend is the girl not the guy in love with her...anyway the guy who likes her keeps telling her he loves her and its annoying her...so i would leave her alone while she has a bf
2006-07-22 04:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley010 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what you can. Date others. It's really up to you. If it's destiny, you'll end up with her.
2006-07-22 04:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋