please help me its been a little over a year and im still extremely sad over my ex?

Question

iv tried everything to get over her and i cant. what can ever make me feel better about this.

Answer 1

Only time. There are stages to getting over someone and for some, they happen rapidly, and for others, they never do. I have been divorced for 11 years and sometimes I still miss certain aspects of my marriage that were positive-it's a normal feeling. Recognize how you are feeling, accept it as a normal feeling, think that because you felt it once, you can again, and then try to think about something else. Do an activity you enjoy-get to know a new circle of friends-do something you've always wanted to do, but didn't have time for.

Answer 2

Why did you ever break up in the first place?Sometimes in life we do things that we take for granted and we mess up and sometimes those things cant be fixed.SO rather we like it or not we have to move on and it hurts and we may hate it but there is no other options,we just learn from our mistakes and try our best not to do it again......so dont keep feeling bad just look at it as a mistake and it may of been a pricey one but its one that you dont want to make again you will find love again you got to want too first,you cant more in to the future if your mind is still in the past..i wish ya the best good luck

Answer 3

Love… that is a difficult question. I was in love once with a man who I knew was a womanizer. I knew he was using me, but couldn't seem to help myself. In the end, he did exactly what such people do. He slept with my roommate. After I left him, I discovered that the times he had been away on ‘business,’ he was seeing yet another girl! She was about 6 months pregnant! So at one point, he had three of us dangling.

After we broke up, I was crushed and gained countless pounds. I was depressed for well over a year… But in time, very gradually, my heart began to heal. It felt like forever and I thought I would never love again. But time heals all wounds, they say. I think it is true.

Do little things for yourself, things that make you happy, like take in a movie or go white water rafting. I know, neither of those may be great suggestions, but you know, something that makes you happy or at least feel better. I remember when I first started smiling, it was a fake smile. No real emotion behind it, like a mannequin. When I laughed at jokes, the sound was hollow, empty, and I felt numb. But with time, joy filled my smiles again, and laughter once more entered my heart.

Sweetheart, a broken heart takes time to heal. That’s the truth. I will pray for you to heal faster. There's also a lot of good advice others have given that I agree with. A lot of people send you their love and support! Good luck, Love. My heart and prayers are with you too. From another one who's been there. We truly understand.

Answer 4

it's a bad thing if you are living in the same place or doing the same routine as that when you loved your ex. so make some change.

spice up your life, make it busy. do something new (take up a sport, buy some new, strange books, make new friends (you can find an ideal bf from this)).

if necessary, talk you yourself. ask: why am i dragging on this? i have a beautiful life to continue.

well, there's a lot. hope this helps.

Answer 5

At the time being when you figured out that the pain still exist....y not tried to concentrating in doing other things else...like your studies or in your job....Time can changes everything....it just the matter you willing to take the first step or not.Trust me!Gd luck bro!

Answer 6

I believe you are too attached to your ex. You are too blindly in love with him.

Let bygone be bygone. Start socializing again.

I got over mine about one years too. Time will definitely heal and start living happily please.

Answer 7

Hook up with someone or get a new boyfriend/girlfriend.