ok, im in love with som1..but then while im in love with that som1 im starting to love my best friend...and idk wat to do!! plus 2 guys like me and its so hard...so (girls perferably) can u help me out here?
2006-07-21 20:48:27 · 11 answers · asked by CourTn3y 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but heres the thing ppl... see my best friend is always there for me and does listen.. but the other guy is like, madly in love with me..i love him also but its weird...
2006-07-21 20:58:51 · update #1
I would spend some time away from one of them one at a time(if that makes sense) Try to decide who you miss the most, then weigh out who treats you the best and who you have the most in common with.
But the best friend, make sure they have the same feelings for you, if you let them know how you actually feel, and they don't feel the same, you could make him feel really uncomfortable and it might ruin your friendship.
Good luck.
2006-07-21 20:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by kazoo1991 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What the hell do you want girl's advice for in the first place. You don't know what you are doing so why would another girl know? It is obvious to me, that A) you are not in love with the first guy, you are only in love with the idea of. B) You obviously like your best friend or the idea of liking your best friend C) forget about the other 2 guys because you already have a great best friend and obviously a guy you have a long history with. You sound like all dressed up with nowhere to go attitude. My advice is to stick with the guy you have, forget about the 2 guys, and stay friends with your best friend, because if you start dating him there is no going back, once you cross that line it will be impossible to go back to the "way things were". So if you want to risk that for love by all means go for it, if not stick with being friends. Oh and be a little more decisive, cuz this type of thing is retarded.
2006-07-21 20:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whell lets see try to figure out which one has the most incomeon with you. then decide what one would treat you better or take you out the most and just have a good old time. see what one is into the same things you are or who really listens to what you have to say when you are having a bad day or just one of those off days if you konw what i mean.
2006-07-21 20:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by well there could be but why? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 04:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well being a man my advice to you is to wait and sort out the one's that you love and the one's that love you (understand the difference), then finally select from those who love you and you 've same feelings for him...........
it's always better to marry the one who loves you than to one you love ...........
so goodluck
2006-07-21 21:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by mobi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think bout which 1 ur most compatiable with relationship-wise an go wit ur heart
2006-07-21 20:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by numba_1_babii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. Keep loving.
2006-07-21 20:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex with all of them, and see who's the best and who still wants you after that.
2006-07-21 20:52:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your best friend doesn't love you
you take other one!
ok?
2006-07-21 21:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by purple carrot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pic the cuter one lol
2006-07-21 20:50:42 · answer #10 · answered by shelley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋