i have a huge crush on this guy that i'm currently interning with. i'm trying to figure out ways to knock him off his feet. what physical features should i concentrate on? i want to appear sexy, but not slutty...also, he dated one of my classmates that i used to work with...we are not friends...i don't think that she is very pretty...in fact, she's fat and has no personality. why are guys attracted to people like that sometimes and what can i do to separate myself from her and other girls he's dated?
2006-07-21 20:34:31 · 22 answers · asked by Lo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shave the cooz. Show him those beefcurtains. He'll get the hint.
2006-07-21 20:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by donaldfrickingduck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SOUND VERY SUPERFICIAL, maybe your not but you want to impress this guy and knock him off his feet, with sexy huhmm..
whatever physical features you need to concentrate on,? WELL you sound confident, and in fact you sound like you think you are really hot.. and which of the "HOT" should you become,
I think you had a huge clue when you said he went out with your classmate who was boring and not pretty and fat,,
maybe she is boring to you and you do not look very deep inside to see more than great looks,
Beauty is a dime a dozen, it is what you have to go with the beauty that makes you stand out..
If this guy is attracted to fat boring people as you say, then he should just go really spazz over you right?/
wrong,
Maybe you should study the walk, or the personality of the one you think is undesirable,
maybe like Ralph Waldo Emerson said: AND WHAT IS A WEED: PERHAPS IT IS A PLANT OR FLOWER WHO'SE VIRTUE HAS NOT YET BEEN DISCOVERED.
2006-07-22 03:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question hasn't got one answer...Diferent guys want diferent things...some who are more sexual may want something within that field or some who are more in touch with the emotions may want something from there.There is no straight answer.
Btw the guys might have been atracted to that classmate of yours cause she had something he was atracted to there is no way to know for sure(or maybe it was just a thing).
2006-07-22 03:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by Lone Silver Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were in your situation:
-Dress professional
-Go the extra effort on your hair
-A little clevage isn't a bad thing ... but not too much ;-)
-Smell nice (a refreshing, powerful body spray work well).
-Smile, remain positive.
-Perhaps send body clues. Initating a conversation of some sort would work. An extra smile around him sends messages.
-Go all in .... Ask him if he wants to go to lunch, dinner or invite to a concert or social function (on you dime!). What do you have to lose? The worse thing he says his no.
2006-07-22 03:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by sanddune 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for you to put down the fat girl who is not pretty was the first mistake you made....... you just think you are better then her and you are jealous of her. You are the one with no personality coming on here talking about her like that. He saw something in her that she liked. And in my opinion you are to much of a stuck up snob for him. You do not have a chance with him......
2006-07-22 03:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be yourself, but don't act like an idiot to attract attention. Try to be humorous. Make a joke out of everyday occurences that you can all relate too. If your pupils are dilated, then you look more attractive. But I dont know how to make that happen in a workplace.
2006-07-22 03:40:39 · answer #6 · answered by Rtoups 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still looking for the perfect woman, a 3ft big boobed midgit that owns a liquer store and has a flat head so I have a place to put my beer while shes giving me head.
:-)
LOL
2006-07-22 04:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by Bill M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are first attracted to the face, then boobs & then your voice. In this order. You should be in a dress which receals more than what it hide, but hide the vital points.
2006-07-22 03:37:30 · answer #8 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i date the woman i feel most comfortable with ...
at the end of it all its not the real hot chick u end up dating its the one the trys to understand me the most...granted yes the hot chick is not bad !!!!! i mean big butt nice boobies nice lol nice lol
but in reality we all want to be understood and loved ,, i mean all bs aside that's really it!
2006-07-22 03:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by marius c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think to make them jealous... why would u have a crush on him? If he doesn't notice u or like u why bother... find people that aren't "like that" there's more people not just him.
2006-07-22 03:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by imreallymean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋