i'm very beautiful, loveable and highly educated girl.. i have a great job , great family .. everything seems perfect but i'm lonely.. y is it that all my relationships failed ? y am i so hard to satisfy ?:(
2006-07-21 20:19:58 · 5 answers · asked by rahaf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to find people that share the same interest as you do (i.e. activities, sports, social clubs, etc.). This will engage in social interaction with other individuals of your liking. I always tell people you want to find one that is attracted to you and share common interest; not people who are completely different (the opposites attract theory).
Some other ideas:
-Be a good listener; try not to talk too much about yourself.
-Since you're a highly educated girl, keep technical details about your life away from social conversation (i.e. work, problems, politics, negative issues).
-Don't talk about about previous relationships in detail.
-Talk about activities or places the both of you may have been (keep in mind, don't be too detailed).
-A good one: avoid sophisticated words that highly educated people tend to use to make them look smarter. You can share your smarts later in the relationship.
-Keep an open mind
-Don't have a big ego or argument over minute issues
-SMILE and remain positive.
-Offer help where needed.
2006-07-21 20:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by sanddune 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm very handsome 27 yrs old, loveable and highly educated guy.. i have a great job too and great family .. everything seems perfect but i'm lonely.. all my relationships failed too :) and i am easy to satisfy ... so finding your other side is not that easy .. i guess we need some more luck :)
good luck to you.
2006-07-22 03:30:49 · answer #2 · answered by Iron Chin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have not met your Mr Right yet. U must learn to put the past relationship behind U, so that when U start a new relationship U don't demand the guy do what your previous bf had did so the guy will be more comfortable and easy with you.
2006-07-22 03:30:24 · answer #3 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a 25 year old male, and have the same problem (except I'm not all that cute). I have just come to the conclusion that it isn't time yet. I've classified all of my failed relationships as "starter' relationships meant to teach me what I DON'T want in a relationship.
Good luck with your seach :)
2006-07-22 03:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by big_t8r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you expect too much, or they off too little. Give it time and don't give up...you'll find your other half all in due time.
2006-07-22 03:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋