2006-07-21 20:12:58 · 37 answers · asked by Jeremy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does it matter???? if some girl doesnt like you because of your religion then thats just dumb......besides as a christian your suposed to find somone else who is a christian
2006-07-21 20:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by alexandra 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Uhmm... there are a lot of jerks on this site. Ok anyway.
There are a lot of good answers. I seen that someone said if you're a christian, then you should find someone else who's christian. That person is right. And being a christian you shouldn't want to be with an unbeliever, right?
2 Corinthians 6:14 - "Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? "
1 John 2:15 - "Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him."
My advice: Don't worry about girls that don't want you because of your religious preference. That should only be more of a confirmation that they're not for you. Stick with what you know is right and never settle.
Best Wishes!
2006-07-21 20:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by PseudoQuasiX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask out other girls who are Christians. The ones who turn you down because you are a Christian are only interested in the physical.
2006-07-21 20:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by Cas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason some would turn you down if you were Jewish, Atheist, Buddhist, etc etc. If you're like (and not saying you are) some serious 'religious' people I know and recite bible passages throughout the day forcing your faith on people, that may be a reason.
I noticed some people saying it's lame if someone won't date you because, in your case, your christian. Well, I don't really think an atheist is going to jump at the chance to date a christian, so in some cases, many cases, religion IS and SHOULD be a reason for not dating someone else!
2006-07-21 20:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by DaBigDawwg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh it can be any reason.
Don't assume it's because you are Christian.
Did they say it's because you are Christian?
If they didn't say that then why do you think that's the reason?
If you are assuming they turned you down for that reason then maybe you have some deeper issues at play here than girls simply turning you down for a date.
Another reason could just be your approach.
If you have any good friends that are girls you should ask them for some advice on asking a girl out. Or give them the run down on how you worked your way up to asking out a girl and see what they say. make sure it's friends you know have good advice. Look at their relationships to get an idea of who you may want to ask.
Good luck....
2006-07-21 20:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.I don't believe they are turning you down because you re christian. Are you a bible thumper? Not meaning any disrespect, but sometimes if you push the christian thing too much, it can be a turn off. Also, get rid of the Howdy-Doody hair style. It looks creepy on christians.
2006-07-21 20:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may not share the same beliefs that most Christians tend to follow. If I were you, be active in your church youth groups or join a Christian college club of some sorts. As you get older, there are plenty of gorgeous women that will share the same values that you believe.
2006-07-21 20:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by sanddune 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joh 17:16 They are not of the world, even as I am not of the world
Joh 15:19 If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you
Joh 16:33 These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.
Mt 5:11 Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake.
2006-07-21 20:24:44 · answer #8 · answered by donia f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because they don't choose the same lifestyle that the average christian does. Some may not want to wait for sex until marraige or other many other things that christians and non-christians disagree on.
2006-07-21 20:15:50 · answer #9 · answered by sarah_lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do they belong to a different religion? i have heard, that people do not take very kindly to jews, but first time hearing about this.
you should have a strong belief in your christianity, as the religion teaches humanity, and forgiveness. i feel there might be some other reason for the denials, than your religion. try and find out by self-analysis. what difference should it make in love or being friends? don't give a damn to such girls, but find out what's going wrong ? be a self-respecting gentleman. don't beg for love, and acceptance, have your pride, girls wil automaticlly line up for you !
2006-07-21 20:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by palador 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know it's because you are christian? Maybe it's because of the way you are acting that has nothing to do with being a christian.
2006-07-21 20:17:43 · answer #11 · answered by Veronica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋