i love her very much but sometimes i hate to look on her face and i cannot hear her voice any more then i break up for some days after that i regret i feel then that i cannot live without her and she always accepts me, but now she does not, we are toghather now but i starts to hate her,why i dont know ??but i love her very very very much and i cannot live without her...
2006-07-21 20:12:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are one confused young man.You are not ready for the challenges that a true love relationship has.I would say that you need to break up with her and both of you date other people for a while.I also feel that you do not need to be in a serious relationship with anyone at this time but instead go on your journey to find out what appreciating what you have really means.At the same time you can also see what other girls are like and then and only then you will know if this is the girl for you. True love is not something that you play games with.It is something that you cannot live without as you said you cannot live without her,but it is also so much more.You need to know that this is the one that you are not going to get tired of,this is the one that you respect each and every day,this is the one that you want to wake up with every day for the rest of your life,and also this is the one that you can talk to about anything at all and share your true feelings with as this is the most important thing in a relationship(being able to communicate with each other).If all of these are true in a relationship with both of you then there will be nothing to hate about each other and you will be able to work out any disagreements by talking it over and also you will never want to leave this girl.
You said that she accepts you and if she always takes you back then it sounds like you may have a pretty nice girl on your hands which you should be able to talk things over easily with.If you truly intend on staying with her then you need to promise her that you will never leave her because is what happens in relationships such as this is you get together,decide to try out having sex and she ends up pregnant.Now you get tired of her and leave her to raise a baby on her own.oh and you get stuck either running from the law or you have to work yourself to death to just pay child support.You also ruin her life by having a baby so young and not being able to enjoy her childhood years as she should.I am warning you of this because i have seen it happen to many others.Not to say that you would do this but am just giving you a little heads up on what could happen.
If you really love her then do your best and always try to respect her and her wishes and if it is true love then you will have the same done for you.
Thats all folks.
good luck and god bless you
2006-07-21 20:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by jlthomas75844 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has probably become a habit, maybe attached some thing to live for and complain about. Sounds insecure and not only being unfair to her but to yourself as well. If you were happy with yourself you would be happy with who you say you love.
Funny how we forget that we have all the answers we just fight them because it means change that's why we are all so stressed we hide what scares us and wands up 10 times worse in the end. Be strong and don't fall short for any reason because there is a reason that things happen and we have to feel what we want from inside talking with others just makes us more confused you make the decision in the end or someone else will make it for you like it or not.
2006-07-21 20:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by jstlilomom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grab on to her as hard as you can (do let her breathe though). believe me, you keep on doing this and one day she'll let you go, and buddy after that you'll start kicking ureself for doing that. for sure, she's a gentle and caring person for having you taken back all these times. dont do this, you'll hate ureself later. please look at the brighter side of this relationship. whenever you get the hatred feellings, jus think how much she cares for you, how many times she's forgiven you for leaving (even when you left her heart-broken all these times) and what have you actually given back. they can seem very minute to u, but definitely are the big parts any person looks for in life. And remember it will be really difficult (rather impossible) for you to find a person who would actually care for you so much. put a lot of thought into this and decide rationally.
2006-07-21 20:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by sun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might care for her but it doesn't sound like you love her from what you have written.It sounds like to me deep down you are tired of her but a small part of you doesn't really want to let her go.Could it be because you don't want to be alone?It is not fair to her if you keep feeling this way and keep staying with her.Be strong and end it for good.
2006-07-21 21:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you like 12 years old? grow up and at least act like an adult. if you cant stand to look at someone, chances are, you just cant get anyone else and you feel like the only girl that talks to you is your true love.
2006-07-21 20:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by metalkiwis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need medication...and i am not being funny i am serious..and your girlfriend needs the **** beat out of her for continuosly going back to your nutty as*s...the only good thing is that some other guy will come along and sweep her off her feet (i guarantee it) and she will realize what good things she has been missing out on and you will be old news...and you will deserve every bit of it...
2006-07-21 20:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by valerie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i think you just tell yourself you love her, however i think you are just afraid to be alone, and you are comfortable with her. now that you know she is moving on and sick of the relationship, your scared and don't know how or want to move on because you don't care to try to work on another relationship. best thing for you i think is to just move on she has.
2006-07-21 20:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this - but you are an idiot. One day she'll not make up with you anymore and then you'll be all alone!
2006-07-21 20:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by 40andgoing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself briefly, do I really love her despite of what she's doing to me. maybe you are just thinking that you cannot live w/o her coz you never experienced the life w/o her. try to do that!
Goodluck!
2006-07-21 20:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a love hate relationship... you love to hate her
2006-07-21 20:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by fuzzywishes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋