I marriage to a guy who addict to computer games, internet and military. Our marriage was good for a year. One day, he told me that he was depressed a lot. He was not himself anymore since he married me. He want freedom and dont want to be marriage anymore. After he told me that, I was so sad and stressful. I was here with greencard and dont know anybody here. I got a good jobs and really need his support. But he was change after the day he told me he dont want to be marriage. He didn't hug me, kiss me like normal and left home before I came back from work everyday. I really dont know what I do. I pretend I was just the air, no commubication. He always did that when he want something but when he didn't get what he want. He is always acting wried. I love him so much. He brought me here to marriage him but when he dont want me he just throw me aways. I want to live here but if we divorce I would not able to live in US because of the greencard regulation. What could I do?
2006-07-21 19:59:32 · 10 answers · asked by Violet W 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Community Service
What abt finance? R u able 2 survive without his support.Treat him with kindness even if u do not communicate. Actions speak louder than words. No need 2 wait 4 him 2 kiss or hug u. Give him a kiss when u leave 4 work. Write notes 4 him tell him pls be home becos u will have dinner when u come back and would like his company etc. little things make a lot of difference. Just be extra nice 2 him ,maybe he will change his mind. Tell him often that u love him.
2006-07-21 20:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by lynnbtohs 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is just no fair. I hate to say this but you married a real loser. OK, you can stay and let him leave if he is going to or you can leave and go back home and try immigrating again through normal channels. Or you can see if you can get him to stay will you until you can get your status changed or have enough time in to become a citizen. I hate to say this but I don't think you are going to get everything you want from this situation. I really do feel sorry for you.
How about trying to talk to him and find out why he does not want to be married. If he is depressed see if he would be willing to see a Dr. for help.
Good luck.
2006-07-22 03:07:45 · answer #2 · answered by idaho gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say kick his *** to the corner, and see about staying here on a work visa till you can become a citizen... and if you have no intentinon of becoming a citizen, then it is way past time for you go to back to you country any way...
2006-07-22 03:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by nannyj37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a man who wants you and not try to find a man based on where in the world you would like to live.
2006-07-22 03:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by StatIdiot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best consult legal services on that. If he is a US citizen and he had you come to the states and marry him, then you are a US citizen and whether he likes it or not, he is responsible for you (financially and all) whether he keeps you by his side or decides to divorce you.
2006-07-22 11:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by robert43041 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him tell him that you will him his freedom as much as he likes but to let you stay married till you get your perment greencard with no regulation
2006-07-22 03:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by lost_moon7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is this qestion in the community service section???
And btw, go home to a man of your own country who will love you and not treat you like crap!
2006-07-22 07:33:14 · answer #7 · answered by Ready 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can stay legally meried to him but that doesn't mean you have to live with him in the same house.
2006-07-22 03:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by Cas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to let him go and go on with your life. it is hard to let go but you want to be happy and you deserve someone who is loving towards you.
2006-07-22 11:27:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on a chat line and find you a new man....
2006-07-22 03:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by shawn s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋