Okay. I like this guy majorly (would have taken a bullet for him) for 3 years. The 3rd year he flirts. I finally get convinced ( by his brother, my friend) to ask him if he likes me. He says no. I crie for weeks. He talks about other girls in front of me. I stop liking him. I come back from my cousin's house, been there for 5 days, and in the birthday party tonight I realized I am falling fast and hard for this guy. Is this normal? Am I wierd for liking him again? Please help me.
2006-07-21 19:15:29 · 13 answers · asked by Renae 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I NEED ANSWERS PLEASE!!!! I"M DESPERATE!!!!
2006-07-21 19:40:04 · update #1
what did you say too me .. you want what you can't have...guess what hun it's time to pick another guy who's gonna love u for u ...he will never love you ..he's jus MIND Fing you.....just do something else do someone else..but move on I know from experince.
2006-07-21 19:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like everyone else has said, yes this is perfectly normal. However, despite what this boy said to you, I think that he does actually like you. The big giveaway is the fact that he always talks about other girls in front of you. The main reason guys do this is to make you jealous and the only reason he's want to do that is because he like you. Also you said that he flirted with you and guy don't flirt unless you like you. I reckon he just coz nervous when you asked him whether he likes you or not and in self defence he said no. Maybe give him some more time before asking again but make sure you don't just ask out of the blue otherwise he'll just get scared again.
2006-07-22 02:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because someone doesn't like you, doesn't mean that you can't like them. He probably think of you as a really good friend and you should come to terms with that or you will lose him. Right now you probably feel a certain void. Compare time, you have looked up to him for three years and it might take a little longer than three days to get over it. Meet new people and keep him around to.
2006-07-22 02:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it normal to have feelings? No you are not wierd for liking him again. Heck you had 3 yrs of feelings for this guy. Just don't get yourself hurt doing something that you might regret later.
2006-07-22 02:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by stampedefocus2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you aren't "wierd" for liking this guy again. just new feelings are coming back again. like you start to remember why you liked him and how cute he was. so now you're falling for him. happens to everyone, that's why some people get back together. they remember how much they like eachother. except in your case it's only one way. well my advice is to (if you were obvious before) to lay off. like show him that you don't care for him anymore and that you just don't like him. he will be thinking "wait you like me" then he'll start trying to get you to like him again. try it for a week, and if no results then move on. guys are stupid!! if he says anything hurtful just remember that most guys are shallow at that age and stupid!!! you don't need a guy to feel whole. just remember that also. but mostly that they are shallow b*stards at that age!!!!!
teen drama *snorts* i hate it!
2006-07-22 02:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by Cirque Du Freak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal. Its hard to let go to someone you cared about for a long time. You can have on and off feelings for this guy at anytime at anyplace. Its just the way it is! It happens to me alot and its perfectly normal.
2006-07-22 02:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but ask yourself is it because he's unattainable? Or is it because he's familiar and you consider him a friend? You're not weird, but if he's really not interested try to find someone else. Don't waste years on someone who won't return it, you'll just have a ton of heartache and pain.
2006-07-22 02:19:29 · answer #7 · answered by bdgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did say he doesnt like you. There are tons of guys out there. Go find another one who values you more and actually likes you without u having to plead him.
2006-07-22 02:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by Arvind C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to reevaluate why you like this guy. He obviously doesn't like you. You deserve to be with someone who will love and cherish you. Don't settle... there is more then one fish in the sea!!
2006-07-22 02:19:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that he is made for you however you can have some dates with him and decide for yourself whether he cares for you or not.Always try to marry a person who loves you and not a person to whom you love.
2006-07-22 02:20:05 · answer #10 · answered by suchsi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋