why wont he talk to me?

Question

i like this guy and i cuda swore he liked me so i asked him out... but he turned me down because ive asked him out before...which i really havent cuz my friends asked him out for me even tho i told them not to and i told him that then he said that he turned me down becuase i called too much but it was his fault i called becuase he tols me to... but like i said i cuda swore he liked me cuz he asked me to come to the pool with him and stuff and he was flirting with me a lottt and then it looked like he was gonna kiss me.... but after i asked him out he wudnt talk to me till he told me why he was sayin no and then he said he needed time and ionno y he wud but thats what he said

p.s. he is a guy who only kisses girlfriends and stuff

Answer 1

He is definetly playing one of a thousand games that dudes play with you all. It is designed to boost his ego, and get you to sweat him. Trust me, his boys are hearing all about it and patting him on the back for being such a playa.

Crazy thing about being a playa is, they eventually get played themselves. You sound really sweet and I thinking you really like him. So....don't give him the sastifaction of playing u like this. When a guy REALLY likes a girl, we sweat the heck out of them.

I know it will be difficult, but move on as soon as u can.