okay so theres this boy my age (13) that lives across the street from me! i think hes really hott but i dunno how to show it!!...and it seems like him and his friends find me attractive too!....wat do i do for him to notice me more??....like go water the lawn every time him and his frineds r out there or wat? gimme ideas!! serious ones though please!!!
2006-07-21 18:33:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well before you can decide if it's love or not, you need to figure out if he likes you. when he and his friends are outside, just walk over there and be like "hey, what are you guys doing?". it could start a conversation and maybe you could invite them over to hang out. once you get talking you can determine which guy is best for you, but for now keep your options open. don't be shy, just go for it. good luck!
2006-07-21 18:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't 13 a little young for "love"? Puppy love maybe? You're young; have fun. Real love is for adults who have time and energy to invest in a real relationship.
But as for the 'catching his eye' part. Have you ever actually talk to this guy? You might try it! Just go up to him and talk to him! Ask him questions about himself, this will 1) give you more information about him so you can decide if he's worth your time, and 2) he will know that you're interested in him. (Talking about yourself will only show him that you're interested in yourself!)
Just talk to him. Watering the lawn is great, but it won't do you any good, other than make you giddy! Just talk to him. :)
2006-07-22 01:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by JennBride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u must first b friends by ny common friend or if u r in same school or class.u can wait for some time till u r in some contect.i think u r young for all this but there is noting wring in it.i suggest 1st b his friend so u'll b able to know him well.don b in hurry to say that u r in live give some time to urself for it.u might find some other boy more hot then him u have to see many things in life.so just b patient
2006-07-22 01:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by pank_ti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay im am not a pro at this but first you need to decide
1. do i really like this guy?
or his he just cute...
2. do i like him? or his friends
**enough with that, try to make yourself noticed but not TOO noticed, make him want you like when you see him outside,
go outside on your steps and call your bff and start laughing, smiling, and talk like you are talkin to "someone really special"
since he lives across the street, i am almost certain that he will notice you...and probably even fall in love with your smile, laugh..
take this from a peer...good.luck!!!
2006-07-22 01:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by Weirdstuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself! Because you don't want to pretend to be someone you're not. If you want him to like you, you want him to like you for who you really are, and not someone you made up. So, just start talking to him. He'll notice that you are confident, and that's a big turn-on! Don't try too hard because you don't want him to think you're desperate. And if it was meant to be, things will fall in place and he'll ask you out! Give SMALL hints, but one's that are quite obvious that you like him. And whatever you do, DON'T give him the impression that you are "easy". I wish you the best of luck!
2006-07-22 01:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take those rude answers to heart honey 13 years old isnt to young to be curious about love, honestly i dont think its love but i do think maybe you should just introduce yourself to brake the ice between u too then see what happens from there you never know what path u go down after that..
2006-07-22 01:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by okangeljenny23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like an adult???..ur 13...I'm still imature and I'm 15..lol u water the lawn if u want girl..and show him that ur confident..don't do it all the time though- key is CONFIDENCE
2006-07-22 03:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm be urself
and go up and talk to him
and its not love till u really get to know the person!
2006-07-22 01:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by hotloverxo328 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 year olds have no clue.
2006-07-22 01:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by Me again 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay when him and his friends are out side tell them to come over
2006-07-22 02:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by NaNa BeAr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋