is it too early to have baby at 22yrs.
2006-07-21 18:29:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Physically no, but people aren't always prepared to have children at such young ages. If you're financially settled in, have the resources to take care of a child and happy with your relationship with both parties then it's a possibility but 22 is still VERY young to be having children.
2006-07-21 18:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by erin2cool1983 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
22 isn't too early, however age isn't really what is important its wh whether the parents are emotionally , physically and financially ready. My husband and i have been together for 11 1/2 years and have a 4yr old son. i was 25 when i gave birth. we had been together for 7 years before we had a child. dont rush anything, take your time you are still young. raising a child is a selfless difficult job, you can never appreciate the realness until you have your own. you and your husband should still be out having fun and enjoying your marriage. if this is really bothering you ask your husband to go to marriage counseling with you, if he refuses go alone. a counselor can help you understand your husbands point of view as well as helping your husband understand yours. you have all the time in the world, be patient and enjoy the road ahead. good luck
2006-07-22 01:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by dawn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push him...I had my first baby at 17, and my second I really wanted a new baby bad so I kept pushing and pushing so finally he gave in when I was 6 mos along he cheated on me...he said he wasn't really ready to be the family guy and he only stuck with me the first time because I was young....I doubt your husband is like that but just talk about it and decide when you guys will be ready together don't push him...Hope everything goes great for you.
2006-07-22 01:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by ~p♥kes~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not two early, but if your married, it will not just be your baby, it will be your husbands baby too. He just like you will have to take responsibilities for the child and work to provide for the child. Its a mutual thing to have a child if he isn't ready, then don't push him. Wait, it may take a year or two but wait until the both of you are ready.
2006-07-22 01:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by Tarabeara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a question that you and your husband need to answer. A baby changes everything.... Are you prepared to give up the nightlife and late partying? Raising a baby is a lot of work, but if you and husband are truly commited to having one and raising it the rewards can be mind-blowing.........
I had my son at 21. While I appreciate the fact I will still be young when he goes to college, at times I wish we had waited a little longer to give us more time to be with just each other.
Perhaps your hubby is not ready to "share" you yet....
I hope I helped!!!
2006-07-22 01:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by mbjwithouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should of had this discussion with your husband before you married him. Which is...when should we start a family
Well it is time to have teh discussion with him. You are old enough to have a baby,but do you guys have enough money to have a baby. Starting is a big responsibablity.
No need to rush. On the other hand, babys arn't always planned.....sometimes not matter what you do a baby comes.
Both you and hubby need to come to the agreement together.
Also, sometimes it takes time to concieve.
Pray
2006-07-22 02:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
22 years old is not to young to have a baby but the best time is when you are 25. If he is not ready, try not to push him into it because it may cause other problems down the line.
2006-07-22 02:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by ~Sheila~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say that it is too early, because that could differ from person to person. Apparently it is too soon for him. Give it time, make sure you are both financially and emotionally ready to care for a baby. You both need to make sure that you are finished being kids before you have one of your own. Best of luck to you.
2006-07-22 01:46:44 · answer #8 · answered by catwilson9497 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GEEZ! Wait. I was 27 when i had my first and 30 when I had my second. NO probs here.. Enjoy life. Live a little it makes for a great marrige. We have been married 27 years and we waited 7 yrs. Best thing we ever did.
Good luck!
2006-07-22 01:34:11 · answer #9 · answered by Michele R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
actully this is right age of child but if your husband not ready for it then discuss with him about this.because it is your personal matter and must be solved between you two. have any problem then try to solve it. afterall a child is sign of your true love. try to understand your husband problem.may they think differently about late child or so.
i am sure u find your solution.
2006-07-22 01:47:13 · answer #10 · answered by mahi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋