im confused...i dnt knw..help
2006-07-21 18:16:57 · 29 answers · asked by shalimar lexie s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
people who hate or claim to hate themselves tend to enjoy self pity. they wake up in their 30s wondering why they tormented themselves and let life slip through their fingers. they need to understand that there are less fortunate people in the world (for example people with cancer) who would trade places with them in a second. you're given a life and you should make something of it. it sounds harsh, but the key is to get a life and to start trying to be something.
2006-07-21 18:21:40 · answer #1 · answered by rocco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont know why you hate yourself? Is it your habits? Or your not able to do what you had planned? Feel like you r out of control?
The only way to begin liking yourself is by "Self Disciplining". You tend to be more controlled and do what your mind dictates. Get what am saying?
It always feels good to have some challenges in life and achieve them. So go out there be an achiever and be happy about yourself.
Now dont do things like shopping, eating out etc....that is all just temporary feel good factors.
2006-07-21 18:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by Someday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you don't really hate yourself. maybe hate is too strong of a word for what you mean. everyone hates something that they did b4 or something like that. you know? like i am sure we have all hated our actions at a certain time in our life. even more than once. so maybe you hate something that happened to you or to someone close to you so it is making you "hate" yourself. I ain't saying that is why you say you hate ur self im just saying that could be a reason. maybe you are just unhappy with something you said or did, or you just hate whats happening in ur life right now. but what ever the reason i don't believe you hate yourself i just think that is the closest word you have to describe how you feel about your self right now. Well i hope that everything works out. and i hope you feel better about yourself soon. just know there is always someone out there that does love you even if you hate yourself and it feels like no one else luvs you.
2006-07-23 09:11:53 · answer #3 · answered by I Luv Joel Madden!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably a young teenager who really doesn't know who you are. Your hormones are soaring, your body changing.
Probably have stress at home.
Your job as a kid is to grow up to be an adult. If you are waiting for someone to rescue you or define who you are....it isn't going to happen.
You are probablyl isolating your self. Get involved in some volenteer comminity things. Look in the phone book or call your city hall. or volenteer or work at the local hospital.....it is when we reach out to others that we figure out who we are, what we need, where we want to be and who we want to be.
Find your passion in life and give it your all. Get educated.
Stop the self hate talk in your head. You have what I would call
dvd's in your head that play over an over again. It is time to rewrite those tapes in your head. You need to write out some positive words and say them over and over again in your brain.
For example....."I choose, health, happiness, contentment, I am amazing and I choose to be the best that I can be."
Say something like that over and over again during the day. Say it the first thing when you wake up and the last thing before you go to bed.
If we argue strong enough our negative stuff......we become that person..
You have one life to live......live it well
2006-07-21 18:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've read through the answers so far, and they are the tritest, smuggest, dumbest pablum I can imagine. Even a retarded baby would puke it out.
Don't turn to religion -- they'll rip you off and try to turn you into a zombie.
Don't try to get a boyfriend right away -- you'll wind up with a cruel player.
Strongly consider counseling. Here' a toll free number:
1-800-448-4663
2006-07-21 18:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must b thinking that y r u like this.so u hate ur self for what have u done to ur life or what u have not done or what u r not able to do.this type of situations come in many ppls life. so don worry it'll go away.don think toomuch about it it'll hurt u more & more. try to see +ve side ur life.try to think good things bout u. go to ur good or best friend & take there help about this situation.just talk to them what u fell.may u fell better once u say things to other.it has happend to me also.u have not specified bout ur situations otherwise i might help u better.but i hope this help u bit .if u need my help just contect me my id pank_ti@yahoo.co.in i really want to help u cause i knkw how it fell.
2006-07-21 18:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by pank_ti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who look in dark holes see dark creatures.
You are your own physician/ prosecutor.
Answer this question. 10 things you like about yourself 10 things and then treasure them for they are you, add 10 more and 10 more until you forget the art of beating yourself up. Go well be happy
2006-07-21 19:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by tillermantony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confusion is not good enough reason. Everyone gets confused, at times. Perhaps to help with your confusion, you should ask me or everyone in Answes, questions about which you are confused.
2006-07-21 18:19:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath. Nothing is that bad. Don't hate your self, look at your problem from every angle you can, and figure out a way to solve it.
2006-07-21 18:22:43 · answer #9 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need an injection of D I C Komycin in ur P U S S Y
2006-07-21 18:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋