I'm married 30 yo about to leave my husband. I met a guy out of town who is 24. We talked on the phone for a week then when I went back to his town we went out. Everything went great except at the end of the night things got hot and heavy, but he didn't want to have sex. We were supposed to go out the next night, but he made up an excuse. Well I had texted him and we did wind up talking on the phone, but he was being an *** and I told him that I wasn't playing any games with him. So I went out with some other friends & we decided to call him & tell him that I couldn't drive and needed a ride and that was true. He picked me up & took me back to the house I was staying. Of course we started making out but he didn't want to have sex due to not having a condom so I gave him a ******** & he said that was the first time a girl ever got him off that way. I haven't heard much from him since & when I have he's been distant & acts like he doesn't want to talk. I'd like to b friends w/him.
2006-07-21 18:04:03 · 8 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I didn't meet him online! Yes, I have every reason to feel stupid! No, I don't want a relationship with him except as friends! Yes, I was pushy, yes, I was drunk, yes, I was a lot of things! My marriage is over!! I am moving back to his town, which is where I am from too! I would like to have been able to be friends with him and forget that night!
2006-07-21 18:26:01 · update #1
Is he gay????
2006-07-21 18:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by adm2576 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you meet this guy online? geesh I hope not.
Nothing wrong with meeting guys online, but hey, you are MARRIED.
You can't begin to really know someone from phone calls and emails.
There is NO way you should be dating until you divorce is final should you be dating.
I would also suggest working on the marriage that you have.
You are behaving like you are 14 years old.
Grow up and get some counseling asap
2006-07-22 01:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his response has been as bad as you describe, even after taking care of him in a very very nice way, I would forget him because he is not interested in having much to do with you.
2006-07-22 01:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by paulsexpress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you're kind of "pushing" the relationship and not respecting his desire to take things more slowly.
you should wait and let him decide if he's ready for someone who's pushy...
2006-07-22 01:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THI NK THAT YOU WERE JUST RUSHING INTO SOMETHIN
THAT MAYBE YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE DONE, YOU NEED
TO GET YOUR SELF TOGETHER, YOU ARE STILL MARRIED
MAYBE YOU NEED TO GET THAT ALL STRAIGHT OUT BEFORE PURSURING A ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP.. AS FOR
THIS YOUNG MAN YOU NEED TO LEAVE THAT ALONG.
2006-07-22 01:21:05 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wish i could be that lucky in women , you need to find another to many reason for not doing
2006-07-22 01:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a different friend b/c old boy ain't interessted...don't feel stupid
2006-07-22 01:12:52 · answer #7 · answered by jb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NAH...I don't think so....
2006-07-22 01:09:36 · answer #8 · answered by texasgirl5454312 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋